I’m 3 new lays in this year already. Exclusively from OLD. Get good professionally done pics and write a good script. Then it’s just numbers.
Don’t worry so much about getting top tier girls you like. Message every girl you’d at minimum stick your dvck in and the most interested girls will make it easy for you to do so.
I do tremendously well at OLD. I'm probably a 6 or 6.5 and I for the most part get anything fron 6.5-7.5 with the occasional 6 and 8 thrown in.
If I had to guess why I am so successful it probably comes down to a few things.
1) I am really good at conversating in all forms. Messaging/texting/phone/in person...I talk about fun and interesting things and get them laughing. Mostly non sexual stuff but definitely slide some things in there when applicable...usually as a response to something she said. One of the biggest things guys do to screw themselves over is to be overly sexual. Unless a woman is specifically looking just for that or she thinks you are Chad, chances are you are just screwing yourself over. You can't bang them through messages, you can't bang nude pics, just get them out in person.
2) I am fun to hang out with. We ask fun questions, I play hot hands or thumb war with them on the first date usually, and I am relaxed and confident. Usually kiss them at some point, sometimes invite them back to my place, sometimes not.
3) I am actually interested in talking to them and finding out about them. I listen and ask follow up questions and then if I like what they say I make them feel good about it...like I say something like "Oh that is really cool you do that...you should be proud of yourself. A lot of people only are out for themselves" in response to one woman telling me how she tries to help her coworkers even though she doesn't have to, etc. Those type of things create connections with people and emotional bonds. The key is they need to be authentic.
4) I display confidence in my sexuality and my sexual abilities. Women LOVE that...when a guy basically knows he is going to fvck the life out them and isn't afraid to tell them. At some point when sex convo comes up I pretty much will tell them some version of "I have skills that you never even knew existed" or "I'm not sure if you would be able what I'd be bringing" or "Your friends would definitely all be jealous of you once they found out about me"...
5) No desperation texts, no double texting, no worrying about the length of time it takes for them to text back. You distance yourself from 75% of other guys just from handling this properly. It is refreshing when a woman senses a guy is confident in himself and doesn't sweat this type of silly stuff.
6) I tend to stay in contact near daily...maybe a text or 2 throughout the day. Nothing major. This has been a key for me. Other people make it work without much texting involved, that doesn't work for me. I tried it and it never worked.
7) It still comes down to volume. If you aren't willing to put in some effort in sending interesting messages, you likely will not do well. If you think sending 5 messages is a lot of work you likely will not do well.
8) Looks are not THAT important. I have gained prob about 20-25 lbs since my most in shape years and it has had near zero effect on my ability to get women or in the quality of women. Yes I have a solidly built muscular frame so even though I have some fat over my frame, I still have a lot of muscle underneath, which definitely helps but the crowd that says you need to be in your best shape, I don't agree with. I might actually do better being heavier and "fatter". In direct contrast to what many preach here but it is the truth.