oldmanofthesea
Master Don Juan
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We have all seen the lists of red flags to avoid.
We have all seen the women who had some, most, or all of those red flags.
But the question I am asking here is this: If you eliminated every woman from the dating pool who doesn’t have a red flag, would there be any left?
Now seriously, I don’t mean this as a bash on women in general, but in the last five or so years, I have tried to focus on women who have the fewest red flags, as opposed to the women who had none because I don’t believe the latter exists... simply because I have never met one.
Guys... have you really ever met a woman who:
1. You find sexually attractive
2. Has no history of sexual abuse of any kind
3. Has plenty of female friends
4. Has no substance abuse problems or tendencies of any kind (including drinking to excess)
5. Had a wonderful amazing healthy childhood with great parents
6. Doesn’t attention ***** herself out on social media.
7. Can communicate and has no serious passive aggressive tendencies or inability to express what she is really feeling or upset about.
Oh and she is single or close (meaning she is casually dating, or totally single).
I know I’m forget lot of red flags too.
Again, not looking to bash women here but truly wondering if we are really searching for zero red flags or just a woman who has the least we can find?
I dropped my LTR of one year tonight.... several red flags (same as all girls I have met and dated). So this is why I am contemplating it.
We have all seen the women who had some, most, or all of those red flags.
But the question I am asking here is this: If you eliminated every woman from the dating pool who doesn’t have a red flag, would there be any left?
Now seriously, I don’t mean this as a bash on women in general, but in the last five or so years, I have tried to focus on women who have the fewest red flags, as opposed to the women who had none because I don’t believe the latter exists... simply because I have never met one.
Guys... have you really ever met a woman who:
1. You find sexually attractive
2. Has no history of sexual abuse of any kind
3. Has plenty of female friends
4. Has no substance abuse problems or tendencies of any kind (including drinking to excess)
5. Had a wonderful amazing healthy childhood with great parents
6. Doesn’t attention ***** herself out on social media.
7. Can communicate and has no serious passive aggressive tendencies or inability to express what she is really feeling or upset about.
Oh and she is single or close (meaning she is casually dating, or totally single).
I know I’m forget lot of red flags too.
Again, not looking to bash women here but truly wondering if we are really searching for zero red flags or just a woman who has the least we can find?
I dropped my LTR of one year tonight.... several red flags (same as all girls I have met and dated). So this is why I am contemplating it.