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article: Why Men Aren't Really Men Anymore

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What people are most often subject to is the company of boys who are refusing to grow up and man up — boys who prefer to play with their toys than to do their part in bettering society, the human race and the world as a whole. These poor excuses for men have the bodies of adults and the mentalities, as well as the social outlook of toddlers. Horny toddlers, but toddlers nonetheless.
 

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This is harsh-written by a woman no doubt because she used phrases like 'a real man would .....xyz'
Good points on building character though.







"character/integrity is built when noone is watching" anonymous quote
 

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This is harsh-written by a woman no doubt because she used phrases like 'a real man would .....xyz'
Good points on building character though.







"character/integrity is built when noone is watching" anonymous quote
Stronger character when on average the "world" has less and less as time goes by? To be trustworthy and honorable for untrustworthy and people who lack honor? To pidgeon your hole out of normal interactions?
 

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It claims to be written by Paul Hudson, a man I think.

For this advice to really be true; would require women that want this. This is written by a man that is not red pill and not so old I think. One day he also will post a thread on this forum.... or one like it with questions...

He wishes what he tells to be the truth and wants to be that type of man and get the reward for doing that. red pill ppl call this blue pill. I wish what he writes would be true, but that will not make it so for me or him or you.
 

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Stronger character when on average the "world" has less and less as time goes by? To be trustworthy and honorable for untrustworthy and people who lack honor? To pidgeon your hole out of normal interactions?

stay strong Sir. Kings always rule alone.
Congrats on getting off facebook (I read on the reddit thread.) Great job!

Keep checking back in with sosuave periodically, just in case you like the 'sosuave reminder' with the new lady you pm'ed about.

For the future, it would
be awesome to hear of you absolutely smashing some new PRs in the gym!!
Excited for you!
 

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This is harsh-written by a woman no doubt because she used phrases like 'a real man would .....xyz'
Good points on building character though.
It claims to be written by Paul Hudson, a man I think.
The writer was Paul Hudson, but it could have been Paula Hudson.

There is a legitimate crisis in masculinty with a variety of causes and manifestations, but this article dances around them instead of offering a deep sociological discourse.

I agree that porn and mbate is bad. Yes, swipe apps are bad. More men should be doing in-person. These are all legit points that Hudson makes.

Hudson needs look for deeper answer instead of skimming over behavioral problems. What are the root causes of the problems? Answering that question is a productive article.
 

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Maybe if the West has dropped shafting men and masculinity whilst trying to give women equal rights without any of the responsibilities, there’s be more men who actually WANT to compete to better society. Who tf wants to better society when all it does is berate you for having a dick & balls? **** that. Bring back gender roles and strong masculine men. The best movies, TV shows, novels, and series of all time talk about a young man coming of age being mentored by an elder who shows him the way. Dragon Ball and Dragon Ball Z, Naruto, Star Wars, Iron John, The Lion King, The Karate Kid, Goodwill Hunting, Harry Potter, Dead Poet’s Society, Lord of the Rings, Rocky, Remember the Titans, Gran Torino, Terminator, The Matrix, Finding Nemo, Cars, anything with Morgan Freeman, and the list goes on.

Even in real life, you had two nobodies who become world stars on a grand stage and became the best at what they did simply because someone took a chance to cultivate their potential—Muhammad Ali (mentored first by Joe Elsby Martin and then by Angelo Dundee) and Mike Tyson (Cus D’Amato). Even the great Martin Luther King Jr. had Benjamin Mays as his mentor. Then thought giants like Socrates mentoring Plato, and Plato then mentoring Aristotle. There’s tons more.

The reason why men “aren’t men anymore” is because society has lambasted us into oblivion and shat on us every step of the way. Weak and emasculate men are championed and promoted via thing slike transgenderism and the faggot movement, whereas masculinity is deemed as being ‘toxic’. When society starts to vilify those who built it and sustain it, it should come as no surprise when society begins to crumble. This world was built by men, and will decay and rot without us.

So be it. Let them sleep in the bed they made. It’ll only be their undoing.
 

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Let me guess this guy supports harsh taxes on oil companies then complain that oil companies are no longer importing oil?

This guy believes that house ownership should be taxed more cause they are rich then complains that people is all on rent and house prizes are at an all time low?

Yeah failing to see the cause-conseguences connection is typical for women...probably his wife wrote that article for him.
 

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Do their part in bettering society? Society failed men. Any “bettering” they do will just benefit women. The guy who’s scrambling to support an unsupportive woman is no better off than the MGTOW guy.
Totally agree with the toxic masculinity comment above. Don’t know why a guy is going to bend over backwards to be something when he will be penalized for it
 

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There is little incentive in Western Society to man up. No one explains these issues better than Rollo Tomassi and Jack Donavan
 

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What has happened? The "way of men" as defined by Jack Donavan's writings has been demonized. We are taught and taught and taught that aggression, roughness, violence are bad. Young boys are taught to behave at school. Behave actually means behave like a girl.
Sexually atracted to women? Pervert.
Doing stunts and daredevil risks? Arrogant microd1ck showoff!
Assertive? @$$h0le!
Assisting a woman? Mansplaining!/What you think she can't do it herself!?
Getting dirty while playing? Boys are stupid

Why, from whom do kids learn the most? Teachers. Bunch of lazy women with low IQs who seek to crush any student's spirit when said student shows signs of a high IQ. Women who brainwash these children to vote for socialism. Why? Because these teachers want more money for being lazy.
 

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What has happened? The "way of men" as defined by Jack Donavan's writings has been demonized. We are taught and taught and taught that aggression, roughness, violence are bad. Young boys are taught to behave at school. Behave actually means behave like a girl.
Sexually atracted to women? Pervert.
Doing stunts and daredevil risks? Arrogant microd1ck showoff!
Assertive? @$$h0le!
Assisting a woman? Mansplaining!/What you think she can't do it herself!?
Getting dirty while playing? Boys are stupid

Why, from whom do kids learn the most? Teachers. Bunch of lazy women with low IQs who seek to crush any student's spirit when said student shows signs of a high IQ. Women who brainwash these children to vote for socialism. Why? Because these teachers want more money for being lazy.
I don't necessarily agree with all of that. I think out of control expression of it is what is being frowned upon. I think properly controlled expression is still very much welcomed.
 

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Why, from whom do kids learn the most? Teachers. Bunch of lazy women with low IQs who seek to crush any student's spirit when said student shows signs of a high IQ. Women who brainwash these children to vote for socialism. Why? Because these teachers want more money for being lazy.
Well very said
 

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Maybe if the West has dropped shafting men and masculinity whilst trying to give women equal rights without any of the responsibilities, there’s be more men who actually WANT to compete to better society. Who tf wants to better society when all it does is berate you for having a dick & balls? **** that. Bring back gender roles and strong masculine men. The best movies, TV shows, novels, and series of all time talk about a young man coming of age being mentored by an elder who shows him the way. Dragon Ball and Dragon Ball Z, Naruto, Star Wars, Iron John, The Lion King, The Karate Kid, Goodwill Hunting, Harry Potter, Dead Poet’s Society, Lord of the Rings, Rocky, Remember the Titans, Gran Torino, Terminator, The Matrix, Finding Nemo, Cars, anything with Morgan Freeman, and the list goes on.

Even in real life, you had two nobodies who become world stars on a grand stage and became the best at what they did simply because someone took a chance to cultivate their potential—Muhammad Ali (mentored first by Joe Elsby Martin and then by Angelo Dundee) and Mike Tyson (Cus D’Amato). Even the great Martin Luther King Jr. had Benjamin Mays as his mentor. Then thought giants like Socrates mentoring Plato, and Plato then mentoring Aristotle. There’s tons more.

The reason why men “aren’t men anymore” is because society has lambasted us into oblivion and shat on us every step of the way. Weak and emasculate men are championed and promoted via thing slike transgenderism and the faggot movement, whereas masculinity is deemed as being ‘toxic’. When society starts to vilify those who built it and sustain it, it should come as no surprise when society begins to crumble. This world was built by men, and will decay and rot without us.

So be it. Let them sleep in the bed they made. It’ll only be their undoing.
Yes, I agree that Western culture has lambasted us into oblivion and shat on us every step of the way.

Absence of fathers and other male family members is a key factor. However, present fathers are not doing that great of a job either. A lot of present fathers who were born between 1946-1970 (Baby Boomers and early Gen X) were total beta males who faced fewer consequences in the sexual marketplace for being beta. Their Millennial (1982-1996) and early Gen Z children (1997-2001) are now ill prepared to face masculinity and the sexual marketplace due to their poor guidance. Nevertheless, a present father is usually a better sign than an absent father.
 

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Hate to say it but most men in this day n age becoming the new bytches
 

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Do their part in bettering society? Society failed men. Any “bettering” they do will just benefit women. The guy who’s scrambling to support an unsupportive woman is no better off than the MGTOW guy.
Totally agree with the toxic masculinity comment above. Don’t know why a guy is going to bend over backwards to be something when he will be penalized for it
MGTOW is actually better than trying to support an unsupportive woman. MGTOW cuts out dead weight, excuses and people working against you. You can still be MGTOW and occasionally dip out for puzzy.
 
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