Go for your type or for women who see you as their type? (scenario inside)

[Good Gao]

I got a game riddle almost that I want to throw in front of all of the pros on here, the dudes who'd call themselves seasoned veterans. Try not to argue the scenario here or how accurate it is but say what is the better option for the guy below.

So say you got a guy who has above average looks, is socially adjusted, and a decent lifestyle. Now this guy tends to be a hit with hot girls that are blondes, pale as snow, or black women. The beautiful women who look white AF or are on the other end of the spectrum and black/African American seem to love him. Some can say that their families being in the USA for generations have caused them to feel at home in American society so this guy's exotic looks draw them in and have them have more initial interest.

The missing thing is, he is not that into white women or black women, he likes women who like him are also more exotic looking.

Now for these women, usually hot girls that are Latin or any kind of exotic/foreign looking, this guy's exotic looks do nothing for them. These girls want the white chad even more so they can fit in with American society and they are not that wowed by this guy the way a white or black girl would be. For these girls, he is more likely to get rejected, be taken for granted, and have to work harder to pipe them down. When it comes to sexual attraction though, he is more into the Latin or exotic beauty as opposed to the stereotypical blonde barbie doll, way more.

He has no goals of an LTR, only sex and flings and one night stands which plenty of white and black women are open to giving him compared to more exotic looking women.

What would you do if you were the guy in this situation?

1. Go for the market that is treating you well and take the path of least resistance. Go for the hot blondes, hot black girls, and hot pale girls who value your exotic looks and are less likely to take you for granted. You will be treated better, have less rejections, have more interest/respect from the get go, and start off on a way better foot. The only downside is, that is not really your thing.

2. Go for the group that will initially hold your look against you or will not see it as anything special. More likely to take you for granted, treat men with other types of look far better, and you will need to compensate or make up ground in other ways to get them. The only reason this is an option is because women of this kind of a look just do it for you in ways women in category 1 do not.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

"Working hard" for babes end up having them use you for your time.

 

[Black Widow Void]

Can't imagine anyone here opting for a girl that can't produce a rocket in our pocket, but that aside, I'd answer "yes" to both.

When I was younger, I picked a lot of low hanging fruit. There was more compliance, less headache and you received more gratitude for your company. After a couple of drinks, they look just as desirable as the higher maintenance ones.

As I've gotten older, I'm less of a hostage to the box. As a result, I focus more on quality than quantity.

 

[Good Gao]

Your basing this off the idea that wd complete control over attraction.
Which i dont believe we do. Bio stuff going on.
Whether or not he or she acts on it has a number of variables involved.

I do however find these kinds of threads somewhat entertaining but very soy at the sametime. But to each his own game.

Yeah to what extent can you beat biology if you are hot and high value huh.

I mean I guess the end answer is escorts.

 

[samspade]

Go for what you want. It's not that hard.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Women are pretty obvious when they are into you. And I’m lazy.

 

[StacksHitEmUp]

A real DJ goes for what he wants and doesn't pay attention to theories that set people up for failure. Believe you can achieve anything and never settle for less. How is this even a question?

 

[Good Gao]

A real DJ goes for what he wants and doesn't pay attention to theories that set people up for failure. Believe you can achieve anything and never settle for less. How is this even a question?

Because.....reality exists. Market matters. You are best off going for your market that is receptive and supportive of you. Common idea being if you are white, go to a tanned dark haired country like Brazil where you get easy sex. If you are tanned and dark haired, go to Sweden.

Yet if you are dark haired guy with tanned skin with a thing for women with that look, where do you go right? No where you have exotic advantage compared to a Sweden.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

A real DJ goes for what he wants and doesn't pay attention to theories that set people up for failure. Believe you can achieve anything and never settle for less. How is this even a question?

But

Because.....reality exists. Market matters. You are best off going for your market that is receptive and supportive of you. Common idea being if you are white, go to a tanned dark haired country like Brazil where you get easy sex. If you are tanned and dark haired, go to Sweden.

Yet if you are dark haired guy with tanned skin with a thing for women with that look, where do you go right? No where you have exotic advantage compared to a Sweden.

Nice thinking

 

[Scars]

I used to go for girls that were "my type", but to be completely honest, now that I'm older and busy running my own business, taking care of my daughter etc, I tend to be more of an "opportunist" these days and take on whatever comes my way. I'm not looking for anything serious right now, so, so far it seems to be working for me. I'm perfectly content being single and have no interest in getting married, so I place little value in trying to find a "good girl".. I'm more worried about if she's hot enough for me to wanna fvck.

To paint a picture for you, my daughter is completely blonde haired and blue eyed. These are the kind of girls I would go for. However, for some reason a lot of Mexican and darker skinned girls like me, and will often make the first move. There's nothing wrong with Mexican or Hispanic girls, don't get me wrong.. I just wouldn't consider them a type I would actively go for.. but they seem to go for me. The last 3 girls I've banged had some sort of Mexican mix in them. I'm fine with it though. These short Mexican girls are starting to grow on me a little bit.

 

[Good Gao]

@stormrider

Decent post but I disagree, I think a lot of men have their type but on a population level, women of their type are not going to reciprocate based on things like cultural biases on their end and such.

I'll give an example.

I have an Arab friend who is brown-skinned and very ethnic looking, he pulls off the beard like none other. Black women and pale as fuk white women are head over heels crazy for him. I have seen pasty ginger beauties and natural blondes tell him at the bars he is attractive back when we could all go out. I'd say his hit rate with such women is relatively high.

The thing is, he loves Latinas, Mediterranean, and exotic looking women. Hot girls of that look tend to worship white guys at least in a lot of US cities I have been to or they go for black guys, they don't really give it up for ethnic guys outside of having a thing for a cool Asian dude.

Now he has been with escorts who were Latin and it was a relief for him because he loves the look. The dark hair, tanned skin, and exotic look is what he wants because he has never been with many women of that background. At the same time, he has to be strategic. He can talk to 3 hot blondes in a night and take one home or talk to 10 hot Latinas in a night and not have any success. I think he knows that for him, the wiser decision would be to take the loss and go for your market in approaching and such.

Then when time comes, go for your "type" by seeing an escort where it is legal or where you have serious status to where your type is almost forced to like you (nightclub owner, etc.).

 

[EyeBRollin]

The only thing that matters is her interest level. You must choose the most attractive woman from the field of women that are interested in you. Don’t make this anymore complicated.

 

[mickdollaz]

I find women who are fat, ugly, or even mediocre looking to be simply repulsive on a sexual level. Hence, there is no "choice" involved.

 

[Good Gao]

How can you disagree when I never made any comments about race or ethnicity? I didn't even mention demographics. All I said was IF you want to go after what you want, make sure she reciprocates. Keyword being "if".

I never said you should or you shouldn't. Never attempted to tell people what they should do. All I said was don't chase or supplicate, whatever it is that you decide to do.

So you disagree with not chasing and not supplicating? Lol. Or are you just having a conversation by yourself about race/ethnicity?

What exactly did you disagree with? Did you even read my post or just want to hear yourself rant in another thread about race?

Nice questions there detective lol.

Nah I wanted to get some thoughts, that is all. This thread was more centered around race but really wanting to know if it is worth it to game women from groups you have had bad experiences with even if you are attracted to women from said groups.