I did a search on the State court database for the past two days and noticed a huge increase of protective orders, warrants of arrest and court cases on domestic violence just in the past two days. Some could be legit and yet others are falsehoods, made up or seeking revenge. I have a friend who is a local cop and he told me yesterday that a number of men are being kicked out of their homes due to a high level of restraining orders during this pandemic crisis.
Stay safe brothers, learn to read the signs and do not engage or escalate the situation. Tempers are high now, depression is setting in, people are hopeless, in panic and so forth. Most important, have a plan during this coronavirus pandemic as to what happens to you, if something was to happen such as a restraining order plus false accusations. Do you have a place to stay if kicked out, money, food, transportation, medical etc and make sure your important documents are in one place. It's also time to start documenting everything and a very good idea to record what you can using a camera or voice recorder. In my experience, whoever reports and files a restraining order first, wins and has a jumpstart in the eyes of cops and judges.
I am happy it's just me and my kids in my house and we are having a goofy wonderful time during the "stay at home State orders" It's a blast with the kids not having cupcake around and feel pity for those men who have to put up with all the crap.
Stay safe brothers, learn to read the signs and do not engage or escalate the situation. Tempers are high now, depression is setting in, people are hopeless, in panic and so forth. Most important, have a plan during this coronavirus pandemic as to what happens to you, if something was to happen such as a restraining order plus false accusations. Do you have a place to stay if kicked out, money, food, transportation, medical etc and make sure your important documents are in one place. It's also time to start documenting everything and a very good idea to record what you can using a camera or voice recorder. In my experience, whoever reports and files a restraining order first, wins and has a jumpstart in the eyes of cops and judges.
I am happy it's just me and my kids in my house and we are having a goofy wonderful time during the "stay at home State orders" It's a blast with the kids not having cupcake around and feel pity for those men who have to put up with all the crap.