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Honestly if she was smart she would be the one dumping your cheap ass
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Its pretty standard for non cheap asses. Its on him for going to a restaurant on a first date to begin with.Not even offering to pay her part is tacky, inconsiderate and demonstrative of an entitled attitude. Yes, many women are like that these days. No, this kind of behavior should not be encouraged or condoned. Nor should we accept the cultural phenomenon of women using OLD for free food and drinks (you’d be surprised how many women do that).
I never understood the concept of “whoever invites, pays”. It’s usually promoted by the same people who say that the man always has to do the inviting. This may have been appropriate in the days when women did not work and did not have even their own money, but that’s not the case now.
Also, remember that the concept of dating and inviting women to restaurants and bars is only about a hundred years old. Prior to the 1920’s, there was no such thing. Hopefully, this stupid custom will go away soon.
Why is it “standard” though? Because men accept it?Its pretty standard for non cheap asses. Its on him for going to a restaurant on a first date to begin with.
Because men are the ones usually inviting and as such they should expect to pay. If the woman offers to pay something then its up to the guy to decide if they want to accept it.Why is it “standard” though? Because men accept it?
Although I am one of the men that pays (I'm in my 50's).... I do find it to be poor etiquette when women (on the first date) display their opportunist side -- ordering top shelf drinks (and/or suggesting the most expensive appetizer) when the paying male orders well drinks.Not even offering to pay her part is tacky, inconsiderate and demonstrative of an entitled attitude.
I can't even believe I just read this...SMH.So I had a date with this really hot chick. The check comes and she didn’t offer to pay. I’ll admit she did say thank you. She ubered to the restaurant and I offered to take her home, which she took me up on. After I drop her off she texted me and said, “thanks again for the ride”
Should I next her for not even offering to pay? She didn’t even do the fake grab at the check.
Why are you spending that type of money on a first date?I look back on a date I went on, she was something like 20 min late, and I dropped 150 for bowling and food after. I should have left, that’s too late. I waited and asked, but no second date. In contrast I was on another date at ihop, we hung out a bunch til things didn’t add up for me. And I think I had a gift card to help.
it all depends on the girl and chemistry no matter who pays what or how much.
Even if it’s $60? Is this an expensive dinner to you? Where do you take girls, Applebee’s?I agree. I always pay for the meal! Even if it's $60. Sometimes you need to beta to get the girl!I was paying up to $60 on dinner dates for first dates from OLD!
98% of men on this forum.They turn everything into a **** test or a possible deception.
Everybody has different means here, and Florida is Florida.Even if it’s $60? Is this an expensive dinner to you? Where do you take girls, Applebee’s?
If a woman pays for the first round on a first date its usually because she isn't interested and doesn't want to feel like she owes you anything.I keep getting the "no, no, I'll get it" from women here and when I insist on paying (damn pride) myself, they ghost me!
So I could have saved money (it's never for dinners or anything, but it might be a few dozen Euros of drinks) and not come out any worse.
Pride is Satan.