I'm fine iif they feel they need to beat me down. No skin off my back. I know how to keep my marriage happy and keep my wife in love with me. I'm happily married for 16 years to an amazing woman and been with her for 20 years total.
Marriage builders works... Both my wife and I follow its principals and as a result I get my needs met properly and so does my wife. She's happy.. I'm happy my kids are happy. 6 years ago(heck 9 years ago when my youngest was born) I would have sang a different song because my kids were young and my wife and I hardly had time for eachother so that resulted in a very unhappy marriage and very little sex and a lot of fights. I couldn't throw away my marriage cuz we didn't have sex so our vows kept us together through the unhappy times even though we didn't feel like it. What sex we did have was mostly duty sex and that sucks.
But once we found marriage builders it taught us that FEELINGS FOLLOW ACTIONS and there is a formula to stay in love thats different for each person (MB tools helps you learn eachothers formula to help you stay in love). So once we got in the habit of treating eachother better because of it, it was a game changer and then SS helped me with amused mastery for moments when my wife is not on her best game.
So.. Bash me all ya like. I got a fantastic wife at my side. All the sex I can handle and 2 very talented children. Once they are grown up I will have my wife to myself again and I will still have many years ahead of me to build an enjoyable lifestyle with her as we continue to make eachother a priority.
Epi
Marriage builders works... Both my wife and I follow its principals and as a result I get my needs met properly and so does my wife. She's happy.. I'm happy my kids are happy. 6 years ago(heck 9 years ago when my youngest was born) I would have sang a different song because my kids were young and my wife and I hardly had time for eachother so that resulted in a very unhappy marriage and very little sex and a lot of fights. I couldn't throw away my marriage cuz we didn't have sex so our vows kept us together through the unhappy times even though we didn't feel like it. What sex we did have was mostly duty sex and that sucks.
But once we found marriage builders it taught us that FEELINGS FOLLOW ACTIONS and there is a formula to stay in love thats different for each person (MB tools helps you learn eachothers formula to help you stay in love). So once we got in the habit of treating eachother better because of it, it was a game changer and then SS helped me with amused mastery for moments when my wife is not on her best game.
So.. Bash me all ya like. I got a fantastic wife at my side. All the sex I can handle and 2 very talented children. Once they are grown up I will have my wife to myself again and I will still have many years ahead of me to build an enjoyable lifestyle with her as we continue to make eachother a priority.
Epi