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mannn.. the game really is to easy

Chev.Chelios

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its really starting to depress me how easy it actually is to bang girls..

I grew up really fvxked up and incel without even knowing it.

I was Christian, thought if i worked hard and was a good god fearing guy is have success.
got my first family with the most smokin hot girl ive ever met and it all turned to chit.

learning game afterwards for years just made me realize at the end that you don't really gotta do anything.

these past few months I'm noticing that the more of a degenerate chit ball I become the more girls just wanna bang.

I fell into depression for along time because I felt like nothing in life was even worth living for.

I guess it was a healing process given the conditioning I suffered my whole life. being a religious beta male.

I'm not doing fvcking anything with my life anymore, and the more I don't give a chit about society, duty, working, money, status, the more girls just wanna bang. it's fvcking weird.

I've been seeing a girl these past few weeks thats almost turned into my best friend by now. I let her know what's going on with me and explaining to her how much i don't give a chit about anything anymore.

working sucks, money's boring, the government's such a fvcking demonic wreck theirs no point of even trying to co exist with it anymore.. I don't do monogamy or marriage and never wanna gf ever again, just spend the rest of my days single and just bang as friends with girls I meet. I'm being real here.

and she can't get enough of it. she comes to my house from across town almost every night and brings me any food, snacks i want.. she wont stop giving me back rubs, runs me bubble baths and makes me bathe with her. sex all night and she does whatever I want,

anything I want she's their for. and I never ask for chit she just offers it.
I appreciate her very much..
but it's all so easy now, everythjng.

I walk down the street to the coffee shop unshowered, beard and fvcked up hair and I see cars with cute chicks driving by smiling and waving at me..

I walk into coffee shops and the cute girls serving blush red and usually always start conversation and ask me about myself first. knowing what I've learned about iois and attraction cues their obviously digging me..

I usually just tell them how much i dont care about work, I hate school, life's boring in sarcastic tone an leave not caring, in the past I would always self qualify, explain myself, try to make them like me and it never worked. now whenever I come back their always glad to see me.

so now when I'm a degenerate mess these girls wanna bang? what about the job, car, cloths, looks, game??);

going out downtown is another thing. on weekends I like going to bars and hanging out because the scenery is cool, bright lights and music is fun to be around. I'll wear sweats and hoody with my chitty vans and walk around by myself, girls on the street constantly giving me eye contact, smiles, giggles.. groups of girls with their orbiter beta f@gs hounding their foot steps will open me first. and invite me with then to places, I act like i already know them orbiter beta f@gs don't get mad or threatened trying to "out alpha" me because I don't even pose ad a threat anymore. I just learned to befriend them and fvck the girls their with later when they don't know.

in the past I used to go out thinking I was going to war and thought I always had to look my best and bring my a-game.

now I just stumble out of the house smelling like stale sweat, with dark bags under my eyes and success with banging girls just became a normal thing. it's so weird.

in my eyes guys I see trying to be good members of society look so try hard and unattractive, completely fake. they just don't know how to have fun.

guys with nice cloths and new cars acting all flashy and outgoing just disgusts me now, not because I'm jealous or anything(I have my own money and means just fine myself)

it's their beta gross azz attitude towards women, this try hard self qualifying way they come off. that chicks I've banged and gotten to know feel this to.

guess what I'm ranting about is, game is so easy and retarded idk why so many guys in here have so much trouble. this whole mgtow, trp, pua movement doesn't make since anymore.

when you bang so many girls with so little effort life sort of loses it meaning, how do I be happier sosuave?

);
 

GrowingPains

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Seems to me like women sense your dgaf attitude and that's what they throw themselves at. Idk, I don't know your life so that's the best I've got.

Your last statement is most interesting out of the whole thing.

when you bang so many girls with so little effort life sort of loses it meaning, how do I be happier sosuave?
You need to start giving a sh!t. Your problem is with yourself. How can your life be fulfilling to you if you don't care about it enough to put any effort in?

You need to find a piece of sand you can contribute to the ant hill. What is your purpose? This is the meaning of life. Most fulfilled people are so because they are needed by others. They provide something. What do you provide? What's your goal in life?

Not a good damn thing right now, that's for sure. But you have the power to change that. And that thing will bring you happiness. Being useful. Overcoming hardship. Exploring what life has to offer.

Sit on your ass and stay depressed. Measure your happiness by your success with women and stay depressed. A woman is not the focus of your life, she will not bring you ultimate happiness. And you are living that reality, but you have not realized it.
 

marmel75

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Do they call you BISP?
 

Epicwinguy

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A lot of guys would kill for your problem ya know
 

ubercat

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You are right banging woman is easy. So base your life around the things that are hard. You need to challenge yourself woman won't do it
 

sosousage

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its really starting to depress me how easy it actually is to bang girls..

I grew up really fvxked up and incel without even knowing it.

I was Christian, thought if i worked hard and was a good god fearing guy is have success.
got my first family with the most smokin hot girl ive ever met and it all turned to chit.

learning game afterwards for years just made me realize at the end that you don't really gotta do anything.

these past few months I'm noticing that the more of a degenerate chit ball I become the more girls just wanna bang.

I fell into depression for along time because I felt like nothing in life was even worth living for.

I guess it was a healing process given the conditioning I suffered my whole life. being a religious beta male.

I'm not doing fvcking anything with my life anymore, and the more I don't give a chit about society, duty, working, money, status, the more girls just wanna bang. it's fvcking weird.

I've been seeing a girl these past few weeks thats almost turned into my best friend by now. I let her know what's going on with me and explaining to her how much i don't give a chit about anything anymore.

working sucks, money's boring, the government's such a fvcking demonic wreck theirs no point of even trying to co exist with it anymore.. I don't do monogamy or marriage and never wanna gf ever again, just spend the rest of my days single and just bang as friends with girls I meet. I'm being real here.

and she can't get enough of it. she comes to my house from across town almost every night and brings me any food, snacks i want.. she wont stop giving me back rubs, runs me bubble baths and makes me bathe with her. sex all night and she does whatever I want,

anything I want she's their for. and I never ask for chit she just offers it.
I appreciate her very much..
but it's all so easy now, everythjng.

I walk down the street to the coffee shop unshowered, beard and fvcked up hair and I see cars with cute chicks driving by smiling and waving at me..

I walk into coffee shops and the cute girls serving blush red and usually always start conversation and ask me about myself first. knowing what I've learned about iois and attraction cues their obviously digging me..

I usually just tell them how much i dont care about work, I hate school, life's boring in sarcastic tone an leave not caring, in the past I would always self qualify, explain myself, try to make them like me and it never worked. now whenever I come back their always glad to see me.

so now when I'm a degenerate mess these girls wanna bang? what about the job, car, cloths, looks, game??);

going out downtown is another thing. on weekends I like going to bars and hanging out because the scenery is cool, bright lights and music is fun to be around. I'll wear sweats and hoody with my chitty vans and walk around by myself, girls on the street constantly giving me eye contact, smiles, giggles.. groups of girls with their orbiter beta f@gs hounding their foot steps will open me first. and invite me with then to places, I act like i already know them orbiter beta f@gs don't get mad or threatened trying to "out alpha" me because I don't even pose ad a threat anymore. I just learned to befriend them and fvck the girls their with later when they don't know.

in the past I used to go out thinking I was going to war and thought I always had to look my best and bring my a-game.

now I just stumble out of the house smelling like stale sweat, with dark bags under my eyes and success with banging girls just became a normal thing. it's so weird.

in my eyes guys I see trying to be good members of society look so try hard and unattractive, completely fake. they just don't know how to have fun.

guys with nice cloths and new cars acting all flashy and outgoing just disgusts me now, not because I'm jealous or anything(I have my own money and means just fine myself)

it's their beta gross azz attitude towards women, this try hard self qualifying way they come off. that chicks I've banged and gotten to know feel this to.

guess what I'm ranting about is, game is so easy and retarded idk why so many guys in here have so much trouble. this whole mgtow, trp, pua movement doesn't make since anymore.

when you bang so many girls with so little effort life sort of loses it meaning, how do I be happier sosuave?

);
What your lifestyle looks like? What's ur job?
 

Rainman4707

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I'm a gentleman. A good guy. Worked on my game for ten years.
Met up with a girl recently a few times. I really enjoyed my dates with her . She just told me that i have done everything right, it's just she dose'nt "feel that spark"
I won't let it bother me to much. It did hurt.
Lot of advice out there is, Work on your game, improve yourself. Be the best you can be. I still believe in myself & will continue on my path. Just need to keep improving i guess. Lots of good guys like me who have improved themselves, wear good clothes, smell good, learned sexual techniques...basically put a HELL OF A LOT OF EFFORT into improving themselves FOR WOMEN, will get pi**ed when woman after woman reject them.
Like is wrote in DJ bible..these good guys think i must become a jerk to attract women, that is not the answer!!
The man is left feeling. WHAT ELSE CAN I DO!? I have my own house, car, learned game, trying to be the best i can be, work hard =)

I will continue to learn & continue my journey, work on my game.

Don't think i'm at the stage of changing who i am for women.
 

bob2007

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You've become the outlier and you are interesting in your own way different from the herd. Men and women are looking for novelty sex these days with all the tv shows and porn. I think I'm a novelty too these days.

When life sucks you need women for emotional support. I've seen this many times in people. My friend's life is unmotivated, he has 3 gfs.
 

Rainman4707

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The real version of IDGAF frame is "I have so much value, I feel so damn complete and happy that I don't give a damn what anyone of you think about me" not the "I don't care if I go to jail" version.

The only way to achieve this frame is by being complete. You can't go out seeking happiness from women and tell yourself "Okay I need to not give a fvck. That should work."
I think my problem lies with the fact that my goal is i want a family & children. So if i meet a woman i think is caring, genuine & loyal then i don't want to mess her about i.e seeing other girls. Therefore i cannot have the attitude of "i dont give a fu*k"
 

ohrein

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If the game is too easy, find a new game. I think everyone grows out of meaningless tail. That game does get really, really easy. The new game is figuring out how women fit into a life you enjoy. If you're basing your contentment on women, or the challenge of women, or sex, or getting rich, then success instantly devalues it. If you base your contentment on a continued enjoyment of progress, you can never run out of it. Though this advice bleeds outside of women and into your life in general. Success with women is an easy and empty win state, pick something better.
 
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