5 years ago, I decided to effectively “ghost” this girl I was completely head over heels for.
At the time I (18) thought it would be for the best. I thought it would help me move on.
We never dated, but we definitely had something going on.
So I sent her a text on Saturday hoping she was doing well and that I really wanted to see her.
I did so without expecting a reply, but I got one, and a really long one at that.
In summary, she told me that all the hurt and disappointment has come crawling back. That she was traumatised by it and it still affects her now. That she doesnt think meeting up will be the best.
She also said that she likes the idea of us trying something, but is scared about the result.
She’s still incredibly angry with me. This is totally understandable, but I just don’t get how she can feel this way after so long. The only reason I chose to avoid her was because I hated her, it’s because I was hurt and still have feelings for her.
I know this is probably it and I will have to move on, but I struggle to understand how she’s still upset with it after so long?
At the time I (18) thought it would be for the best. I thought it would help me move on.
We never dated, but we definitely had something going on.
So I sent her a text on Saturday hoping she was doing well and that I really wanted to see her.
I did so without expecting a reply, but I got one, and a really long one at that.
In summary, she told me that all the hurt and disappointment has come crawling back. That she was traumatised by it and it still affects her now. That she doesnt think meeting up will be the best.
She also said that she likes the idea of us trying something, but is scared about the result.
She’s still incredibly angry with me. This is totally understandable, but I just don’t get how she can feel this way after so long. The only reason I chose to avoid her was because I hated her, it’s because I was hurt and still have feelings for her.
I know this is probably it and I will have to move on, but I struggle to understand how she’s still upset with it after so long?