Any of you guys experience this? It happens to me more times than I can count and it's a frustrating thing for the most part.
Example 1: I just had a girl fly out to visit me, who I grew increasingly annoyed with. HB 8 and looked great at my friends wedding. Rocking body. After getting to know her I realized she wasn't an interesting person to me and I decided all I wanted was to f*ck. She would constantly tell me about how many guys hit on her and how she's a badass at work, has so many friends, etc. All it did was annoy me and she received no reaction from me. More like a shoulder shrug type or response, because I genuinely didn't care. But it drove her nuts and emotional. After drinking she broke down about why I didn't like her. It was awkward because she was staying with me that weekend.
Example 2: After a night out at a work happy hour. I basically told a girl from another department that I didn't want anything serious with her and just wanted to be friends with benefits. I'd say she was a HB 7. Amazing rack and cute face. A little on the heavier side, which I'm not really attracted to. She agreed but eventually caught feelings after our 4th encounter. Again not much in common and I knew I could do better. She also tried hard to impress me by cooking for me and making sure she had my favorite beer in her fridge before I would go over.
I have plenty more but they're all pretty similar. It just proves when you don't care about impressing, making time for, paying for everything or just doing things for in general for a woman that she'll try so hard to get you to like her. And then on some instances when it's reversed and you actually do stuff for a woman you're interested in, at times they don't reciprocate as much.
Example 1: I just had a girl fly out to visit me, who I grew increasingly annoyed with. HB 8 and looked great at my friends wedding. Rocking body. After getting to know her I realized she wasn't an interesting person to me and I decided all I wanted was to f*ck. She would constantly tell me about how many guys hit on her and how she's a badass at work, has so many friends, etc. All it did was annoy me and she received no reaction from me. More like a shoulder shrug type or response, because I genuinely didn't care. But it drove her nuts and emotional. After drinking she broke down about why I didn't like her. It was awkward because she was staying with me that weekend.
Example 2: After a night out at a work happy hour. I basically told a girl from another department that I didn't want anything serious with her and just wanted to be friends with benefits. I'd say she was a HB 7. Amazing rack and cute face. A little on the heavier side, which I'm not really attracted to. She agreed but eventually caught feelings after our 4th encounter. Again not much in common and I knew I could do better. She also tried hard to impress me by cooking for me and making sure she had my favorite beer in her fridge before I would go over.
I have plenty more but they're all pretty similar. It just proves when you don't care about impressing, making time for, paying for everything or just doing things for in general for a woman that she'll try so hard to get you to like her. And then on some instances when it's reversed and you actually do stuff for a woman you're interested in, at times they don't reciprocate as much.