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Nice thread tbh. Always good to see the other side of a different view point and compare it to what you have been implementing in a different belief
 

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Eh sounds like meeting place where low-testosterone men and masculine women come together and compare small their small penises and over sized ****s.

I do believe TRP does go overboard on more then one occasion thoug, through its "philosphy"

Never assume absolutes when dealing with people.
 
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Ohh, this will be super interesting. I'll post some replies to posts I find interesting beginning with this one.

Are all women REALLY like that? (based on science) (reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/43fe39/are_all_women_really_like_that_based_on_science/)

TLDR - Studies have shown that women who crave sensation and have low impulse control tend to be attracted to more dominant men (alphas).

This is something I've been saying for a few years now and something I observed first hand during my "pure alpha" phase. The most alpha guy I know only ever dated the most broken women with daddy issues I've ever seen. Porn stars, tattoos and fake tits. But by how many people define alpha and success he was killing it. Ultimately, he was unhappy. He met my girlfriend and he was like, how do you get a woman like that?

The main point of this article begins with this premise in the conclusion. "The kind of tactics that the Red Pill advises, and their whole philosophy, is aimed to work and attract women who are promiscuous, don't care about commitment, have daddy issues, are sexist and think that men should pay for dates, that play mind games, like to drink a lot and think that life is all about "live fast, die young".

And ends with "To conclude: NO, NOT ALL WOMEN ARE LIKE THAT. IT'S THE KIND THAT YOU GET ALONG WITH THAT IS LIKE THAT."

I would argue that the data itself actually backs up red pill claims, which is that the idea that being dominant can lead to sexual success. I would also argue that the definition they used to mount their conclusion is a faulty premise. I don't think the red pill is really about tactics at all but more based purely in observation. The observation that your feelings about how inter-gender relationships should work is not how they actually work. Rollo very rarely talks about tactics and PUA yet he's the Godfather of the red pill.

Finally, to conclude that because some women have demonstrated a higher propensity for certain sexual behaviors with dominant men does not mean the premise is faulty. We're talking degrees here. Are damaged women more attracted to dominant men according to this study? Yes. Are un-damaged women therefore not attracted to dominant men or less attracted to dominant men? Or is it that un-damaged women have more priorities than dominance and so they are not as focused on it? You really can't make these conclusions based on this study and if anything the study proves that the red pill is true in at least part of the demographic of women. There's no reason to suggest that healthy women aren't going to be attracted to a more dominant man over a less dominant one, even if they forego the hardcore alphas.
 
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No, your girlfriend doesn't want to cheat on you with a "more alpha guy" (based on science) - (reddit.com/r/exredpill/comments/41jtvo/no_your_girlfriend_doesnt_want_to_cheat_on_you/)

TLDR - The studies showing women are more attracted to masculine men during their fertility phase are inconclusive therefore hypergamy is a myth. Don't listen to the "biological essentialists".

This is the same poster and you can see the same poor reasoning resulting in poor conclusions with this post. Inconclusive evidence doesn't disprove a theory any more than it proves it. So step one is not to use inconclusive studies as evidence that a premise is false. He then goes on to point out a bunch of stuff about how if a woman is happy in a relationship she is far less likely to cheat (that must have been a difficult realization).

There's not a lot to say about this other than it's the standard binary thinking that perpetuates the misunderstanding of red pill knowledge. This is the same sort of logic you see from those steeped in identity politics who make claims like biological sex doesn't exist. We know men and women have biological subconscious processes involved in sexual relationships. All article really states is that studies showing one particular aspect of hypergamy are inconclusive and that if your girlfriend is happy she won't cheat on you. Which leads us right back to "why is treating my girlfriend like a princess not making her happy?" and straight back to the red pill we go.

I was hoping to read some interesting points but six articles in and so far I'm unimpressed. Let's hope we find something worthy of a discussion.
 

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Glad you're reading it and getting something out of it even if it's disproving the detox philosophy. It's too much reading for my taste lol.

The thing is I'm sure there are valid points on both sides like with anything; politics, religions, even within science because it's not as black and white as people want it to be. We just want it to be black and white because it's easier for us- gray areas are difficult for human minds to process. I think the key is to keep an open mind but also remember that people out there are making a ton of money selling new cures because the placebo effect is a powerful thing.
 
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Eh sounds like meeting place where low-testosterone men and masculine women come together
I believe that's an INCEL honeypot.
None of those people are getting laid.
 

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Glad you're reading it and getting something out of it even if it's disproving the detox philosophy. It's too much reading for my taste lol.

The thing is I'm sure there are valid points on both sides like with anything; politics, religions, even within science because it's not as black and white as people want it to be. We just want it to be black and white because it's easier for us- gray areas are difficult for human minds to process. I think the key is to keep an open mind but also remember that people out there are making a ton of money selling new cures because the placebo effect is a powerful thing.
I wouldn't say proving or disproving. I think there are some interesting studies in there that might be surprising to some of the more hardline red pillers. But to me, none of what I read was particularly new or made me question the red pill. I'm someone who keeps a fairly healthy and even keel with the red pill though. I don't deny women's agency and look at the 50% of marriages that work as well as the 50% that don't. But I have also seen the sort of behaviors women can exhibit. There's no doubt in my mind that I was conditioned by a single mother to exhibit mostly beta traits and almost zero alpha traits. I went hardline to all alpha traits and had a lot of sex with the women with daddy issues. Now I've swung back to a balance I'm happy with and the woman I'm dating now is great. Could be luck, could be I've got a decent understanding. Time will tell.

I'm glad you posted it anyway, I might do another quick read before work.
 

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Fallacies in Red Pill (Part I) - The Biological Determinism Fallacy (Based on Science) - (reddit.com/r/exredpill/comments/5wq6x5/fallacies_in_red_pill_part_i_the_biological/)

TLDR - The red pill claims all women act in a biologically deterministic way yet science says there is a fairly even mix of nature and nurture when it comes to inter gender dynamics.

I actually agree that the red pill is often used incorrectly in a deterministic fashion. This is something I do see a lot from the red pill community and it's something Rollo is slightly guilty of, despite the fact he does regularly defend his material stating he is not making deterministic claims. I have read his books and they come off as deterministic to me, despite me knowing he does not hold that view.

In any event, this is true. People are very complex and can sometimes be very predictable and other times be very chaotic. I think the idea that women can not have agency (a self view above their biological drives) is a terrible misunderstanding of reality. But that said, there are many biological factors that influence behavior far more than the 50/50 split referenced in this post. They do acknowledge that the ratio is dependent on the behavior in question, which I think just muddies the important part which is how much of inter gender dynamics is driven by nature?

I don't have a scientific answer but in my experience and reflecting on my own biological drives over the years I'd say a lot. I'd say it's up there with eating. We have an obesity crisis in the west in the same way that women are hypergamous and the same way men will chase hot women. We have agency over it, but how good are we at controlling it? I know for me personally it wasn't great at certain points in my life. It's better now.

So the conclusion "What we find attractive is not just dependent on instinct, it's also dependent on pure envrionment like socialization, contigencies, values or education." is true. Yet, it does little to outline how much the other variables impact the types of behavior red pill is interested in. And I think one thing that the red pill gets right is that in the west, with an open sexual marketplace and the fact women now need to operate hypergamously in a work environment where they are successful as men, women are less restricted by environmental factors and therefore are more likely to act biologically. We see the same phenomenon in heavily feminist Scandinavian countries. When men and women are the most free socially, when they are raised outside of "oppressive gender norms", their biological drives maximize and you see a larger gap between men and women in traditionally gendered fields like STEM. The opposite is true in poor countries where you see more women in technology based industries because it feeds their family. They don't have the choice to pursue their desires. So what does that say about a woman's sexual agency in the west? Well, there are virtually no environmental pressures at all. She's encouraged to sleep around and experience her sexuality, she's encouraged not to settle down, she's encouraged to get a career which will make it difficult for her to find a man equal to her, she's free to do as she pleases. Which is not a bad thing at all. But it does mean that women are no longer raised to value family and monogamy from a societal view. She must have that view from her own life. This is why a woman's family life is very important in screening for an LTR. If she grew up in a nuclear family and wants that for herself, she's far more likely to have sexual behaviors that aim at that goal. On the other hand, if she's a tattoo'd up party girl, she's probably going to have open sexual behaviors and is likely unfit for an LTR. So know what your goals with women are and aim well.

So my conclusion? It's a reasonable point. Do not fall for deterministic thinking. People are chaotic. AWALT is a warning that every woman has the potential to act contrary to how we believe they do as blue pill conditioned men. In a world of imperfect understanding, there's nothing wrong with being aware of the possibilities and to know how to spot women who are more likely to act that way and avoid them. However, AWALT is not a message that women are printed from the same press and will all act identically. We know that's absurd based on observation in our lives. It's a common criticism of red pill ideas and it's a criticism that has merit given the misunderstand of many people who are red pill.
 
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The problem is there is no side. This is all about self improvement. About seeing reality. We do nit view women as enemies. At least I don't. I just fibally see them as humans. No longer on a pedestal.
 
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