Recent content by wiggadude

So you all think I should cut straight to the point? As in "let's get together"? Or should I ask for her number first, and then ask her on the phone? I was going to do some chit-chat first, but it looks like everyone here thinks I should skip that.

Guys, I'd really apprecite some tips!! :confused:

While waiting for a flight at the airport I saw a really attractive girl walking into the terminal. She sat down and began to read a book. A few minutes later I moved over to her gate, sat down right across from her, and proceeded to read my own book. While "reading" my book, I was basically...

There are plenty of people here who know what I'm talking about. Some women have that "spark", that walking-on-clouds crush. Most don't.

Well, I've been in the working world for five years out of college. Meeting women ain't working here, seeing that I've only been on like 1 date in those five years.

Out of curiosity, can you provide a summary of your relationship history throughout your life? Kinda like my summary at the beginning of this thread, just so everyone knows what you've tried, what worked, what didn't, etc. Thanks!

Yeah, see what I mean... I know so many in their 30s etc who are still looking. No offense, but when I'm your age I don't want to be in your boat. Now I'm 25, and I said the same thing about 25 yr olds when I was 18 :) I didn't want to be in my own boat now...

It's obviously not the ONLY reason I'm going, but I do think it'll be easier there. But I could be wrong.

Re: Re: Thanks for the replies I never did. I wish I had.

One more thing: I think finding a gf/wife is so important that I'm giving up my steady $120k/yr job and going back to grad school this fall. I'm not kidding!

Thanks for the replies The replies here have been very useful. Since I started this post, let me now dispel some of the myths about my problem: - "You have fear of rejection." Nope, when I see such a girl where I get a huge crush I never have problems getting to know them. I don't have any...

I'm serious.

My life pattern has been: get a huge crush, get rejected, wait 5 years, get another huge crush, get rejected, repeat. The problem is that I'm only attracted to approximately one woman every 4-5 years. Sure, there are other women that I find sort of cute, but there's not that really strong...

No action in college, both times? I had ZERO action during undergrad. But I'm 25, and this year I'm goin back to grad school, for probably 5-6 years. Hopefully that will be a good opportunity. I still think a university campus HAS to be the best place in the entire world to meet single women...

Not necessarily. I know some really great people (guys and girls) who are over 30 who are still single and looking. I'm talking really successful, attractive, intelligent, fun people.