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    Worst mistake you can make

    What is of value to he who has everything? The stereotypical answer would be time. All the world's clout and all the world's cash cannot buy back time, right? Wrong. Time can be bought. The multimillionaire who charters a G650 instead of a G600 because he won't have to stop for fuel on his way...
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    Picking up waitresses

    Cøcky funny is the way with hired guns. I start with a situational observation, about how busy or not the place is for instance, moving straight onto playful teasing of her in relation to the situation. If she's receptive I amp it up. At some point you have to bite the bullet and go for the...
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    Being an Orbiter

    You had her stay the night? Simp
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    Sexualise everything

    I was walking through the city with a girl I've been seeing. The place is an honest to god cesshole. Garbage everywhere, graffiti, smashed glass. She didn't care, because she was with me, I didn't care, because I sexualise everything. In today's paranoid society, even pulling your girl's face...
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    The Plow Horse Man? You work I'll provide the V? Please lend me your ear.

    This was your journey to awakening & becoming a man. Wise men learn from other's mistakes. There are no wise men today. You learned the proper way.
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    Feel like I'm not getting laid nearly as often as I should be. Tips?

    You're not gonna enjoy reading this, but I'm gonna type it anyway: only a loser wants a relationship with a single woman. From what you've written, you aren't a loser, and therefore you should not be craving a single woman, which is what losers do as they can't consistently get laid with...
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    Dating two girls feels guilty

    OP do not think about "settling down" in your early 30s. That would be a tremendous waste.
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    Being an Orbiter

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    Confidence / self belief issues while being hit on

    What were your responses? Sounds like she was flirting for discounted food. Girls do it all the time. Never take the bait. It'll be your ass in the ringer if your employer finds out.
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    So it's come to this...

    Josh Cahill looks Chadly. Aviation blogger. Obviously easily reverse image searched. He isn't even jacked.
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    Things to talk about on a first date

    At the start of the date, always talk about something cool you own, big it up, even be arrogant. If she's into you she'll love it and if she's not you were never gonna get anywhere with her anyway. It could be a cool jacket, or a pet, or a motorbike. I talk about my fragrance collection, having...
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    Watch Netflix SexLife

    Legends Of The Fall. Brad Pitt plays the alpha all the girls wanna tame. Meanwhile needy betas dance and twirl for the girl's amusement. The entire film is on YouTube in high quality, for now.
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    Chick that's coming over is into BDS*M

    Piss down her throat
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    I'm rarely social in the sense of making plans to spend time with friends. When I'm with people however I tend to become the centre of the interaction process, and if I'm not I consider the interaction a waste. When I'm around people I consider to have higher value than me it can go either way...