Recent content by tony.shai

I don't think it's hard to get out, it's impossible to get out of it. Also, I agree on the rejection part, you could also hear stuff like: I'm going through a bad period, going through drama, want to be alone, it's difficult for me blabla. I usually cut off these women now: my rule is if...

I do tech stuff. It's the reason I joined this forum. Was virgin at 22, never kissed a girl. I'll let you guys figure it out for yourself, but believe me staying in front of the computer for 10+ hours or doing math doesn't help with getting pus.

The stories mrgoodstuff shared make me cry. But they also prove why being red pilled is your best bet in today's world.

Yeah. I remember what brought me to this forum was similar situation. Now I just know that it's not worth my time and next her immediately if she starts to play games like this. If it's hard for you to get rid of her mentally, just imagine her ****ing some big ass muscular guy and them laughing...

I think you're definitely better off focusing on other women and forgetting this one, especially given the last thing she messaged you. It's clear she's bored and wants to suck you for attention with no expectation of reciprocating anything. Definitely ****s Chad on the side while having fun...

The insecurities are great, use that. I use them as tool now. When I talk to a girl that's out of my league I know deep inside me that this chick looks good yeah, but still has tons of other issues, which helps me to flip the script.

Or going through some "drama"/hardship etc... More or less translating to "evaluating multiple d1cks atm"

Great. It really seems very natural. The examples you gave with the high value / low value guy point me to the direction that I am definitely displaying low value behaviour and I am qualifying myself and escalating on my own high points. Also, I think I build way too much comfort and my lines...

Great ideas, I literally had no idea about that. I understand you now, the windows analogy was great. I'd be very interested if you could point me to a post/book/material where you read these lol. I guess it happens automatically with experience, but I'd rather have a quick boost. You put...

So what you mean is I should stay static in a sense and just have fun around, without flirting etc. and let them initiate everything? Also, does this mean that I should pretty much assume that you cannot generate attraction in a woman, and it's either there or not? Sorry if I'm asking a stupid...

What I meant by is asking for her number and get LJBF'd straight out, sorry. But very good points. I'm trying to get better at that, because I happen to meet a LOT of decent chicks through my mutual friends but it almost never works out. I guess I'm more outcome independent when outside social...

I think a lot of guys (me included) have the difficulty of showing interest/escalating when in your social circle. What recently happens to me is I find a girl interesting after we talk for a while (say we have mutual friends and we meet at parties), then I ask her out, get LJBF'd. Never happens...

Look man you are already wasting your time. When I came to this site I was in your position, poor hopeless AFC. For three months I've been reading sh!t and lifting and dated more women than I ever did in my entire life so far. Read up the material on the bible, read the book of Pook, read...

Ask out, get rejected, next and move on? Also spin more plates, the less you care the better off you are, I managed to learn this from this site and it does wonders.

Mostly worried about the gym. Gotta keep focusing on increasing SMV. Motherfvckers closed the gyms in my country, but what I did was to buy weights before the shops closed and I'm doing weighted calisthenics outside. I also bought some more calisthenics equipment just in case the training...