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Thanks for all your advice! I have ended up going on the date, which went wonderfully. It appears she likes me.

Dear All, I met through FaceBook a woman from my hometown that I knew in my youth. We both are now living in the same town. After some sporadic exchange of messages on FaceBook for two weeks or so, I invited her for a walking and she accepted it. I told her that I would call her today for...

Thanks for all your feedback! I did try to set a date up with her by using Tinder, but she has never replied after I proposed a day and a time for our date...

Dear All, I matched with someone on Tinder. After a few days of conversation on Tinder, I suggested we meet up in person. She took one entire week to answer, telling me “Why not?”. So, I asked her for her number for arranging our date, and she replied that she uses her mobile also for...

I thank you all for the wisdom who you have shared with me. Since my acceptance of her lunchtime date proposal, I have never contacted her and will go on with this non-investment policy. She has also kept her silence. I am now working on other plates.

EyeBRollin argued that I have no value until I meet her and that I should therefore accept her lunchtime date. I replied her proposing a day for our date, and she has never replied.

I understand your reasoning. However, by having said her "Whether or not our date takes long to occur only depends on your degree of interest", I only wanted to imply to her, in a polite way, that her interest was low and all her excuses were bull****. Since the first moment I proposed a...

I liked EyeBRollin's advice, and, instead of ceasing communication, I sent her a text saying "Let's discuss that in our date". She replied immediately agreeing with a date during her lunchtime, but warning that the duration of the date will be short, because she will have to return to her...

This is to let you know how the situation has evolved. Instead of giving her no reply, I followed EyeBRollin's advice of texting her: "Let’s save our conversation for the date." She again accused me of pressuring her, and added that our date may take some time to occur and that meanwhile we may...

She have just replied accusing me of pressuring her, and asks whether we will not talk until our date. To be consistent, I shall give her no reply.

Thanks for all your helpful comments. I have meanwhile sent her a text asking her for a date. She replied with something else and not answering my proposal of a date. Since in her reply she asks a question (totally unrelated to the date) to keep the conversation going, I answered her telling...

Thanks for your advice. She never mentioned to get up early; I knew she gets up early, as she lives far away from her work and her work starts early.

I matched on Tinder with a 48 years old woman one week ago, and we have texted each other every day. (I am 50.) She seems to be quite interested mainly due to the status gap between us. Yesterday, we talked on the phone for the first time, and the conversation took 1 hour. During the...

Thanks, Desdinova, for your advice, that I very much appreciate for being insightful and explained in a constructive way.

I am not claiming my behavior was correct, as my behavior was chosen under a context of uncertainty (what was the type of woman I was dealing with?): If the woman does not lack emotional intelligence and is perfectly normal, my behavior was wrong. So the question is: How could I have done better...