Recent content by Toddz

The appropriate action in this scenario is always silence and distance. You don't be irritated and annoyed, but simply turned off by her. Any reaction by you is going to come off as insecure and jealous. If she brings up other dudes hitting on her again dump her. If it were me, I'd already be...

If a woman flakes, I do not confront and instead remain polite and courteous. I do leave it on them though to reschedule with me and if they don't then we never see each other again. I never double or triple book plans with women on a single night. It's a poor strategy because I don't want to...

Every guy has been in your situation, so you're not alone. This is an opportunity to grow and become a better man, you may not realize it now, but it is. You said a lot of it you are to blame? Then learn from the mistakes that you made in the relationship, and don't make those mistakes again...

I've gotten maybe half a dozen lays off of IG, but I do have a few thousand followers and never DM them first. Usually women will reply to my stories and then I will chat them up and gauge their IL to get them to chill. Tinder is a dead App and I refuse to pay. I used to get loads of matches...

Women that waste your time are easy to spot, as long as your keep your eyes open. Is she easy to get together and make plans with? Or is she constantly busy and making excuses? Is she sexually open to you and have you slept with her within 3-4 dates? Or is she putting up barriers and making you...

She's pulling back so you mirror her and pull back even further. You did the right thing by leaving and removing yourself from her presence. Agreed on laying low on the contact. Don't confront her on the sex and ask her what her problem is or if she's cheating. Either she comes back around...

Interest Level is all that it comes down to here and with every interaction with women. Women that are High Interest make it easy for you. Women that are Low Interest are the ones that leave you guessing, wondering, and scratching your head about. The most important thing is for men to only...

The OP really couldn't have played it better in this case. She pinged him for attention and he immediately tested her interest level by asking her out. She didn't follow through which is Low Interest. Had she followed through in meeting for drinks it's High Interest. Interest Level is all...

Workout, eat healthy, and take care of yourself not just physically, but mentally. Money is important, but shouldn't be your only focus in life meaning have hobbies and do things you enjoy. As far as women, don't tolerate any bs or bad behavior and maintain self respect at all times. If at...

The most important part of seduction is reading body language and escalating. If you're on a first date and she is making strong eye contact, touching her hair, and opening herself up to you, you escalate. If her body language is closed and cold, you're getting blown out and next. Escalating...

Advice to the younger guys should be that if you want anything in life you have to work for it. That includes your physique, money, lifestyle, women & relationships. Physique, money, lifestyle is straight forward. Women & relationships is the tricky part. For that, you need to be consciously...

I just ghosted a woman like this. Took her on 3 dates and she refused to come back to my place all 3 times. Yet she showed high IL and lots of making out, touching on all 3 dates. 4th date it was dinner at my place or nothing and she flaked saying I wasn't giving her enough attention while we...

If it didn't work out the first time, why would it work out this time? Hot and cold, disappearing, highs and lows. Do you really want to put yourself through that again? If you want casual fun by all means go for it, but she doesn't sound like relationship material

Bottom line in this thread should be this: You meet a chick that you are attracted to, ask her out and attempt to seduce her into bed. The seduction is a simple process and she will put of signals that she is open to the seduction or not. The signals are not verbal. You escalate until you have...

If your attractive and good with women you don't need to treat them badly. I personally do very well with online dating and with dating women from IG. I usually message back and forth a few times screening logistics and looking for red flags, then ask them out if they meet my initial criteria...