Recent content by Toddy

Agree with this, reiterates a lot of stuff that’s already been covered by others. It’s a short book and easy to read I like his red flags chapter.

Thanks guys, just seems one of the hardest things I’ve had to do, but know it’s for the best! I’ll keep you posted….

I’ve been married for over 20 years (now 48) been miserable for a number of years. Now I’ve done the work seen all the red flags I missed at the beginning, she’s 5 years older, controlling, gained loads of weight, no respect, and no sex etc. I know I’ll do well once I start dating, I’m 6’4...

Unplugged Alpha by Rich Cooper

Thanks I’ll look to add to my stack, was already thinking of tongkat

Thanks, everything is good. Well May be the attraction, she’s got an amazing figure but no boobs. I’ve cut back a bit too on jiu jitsu I was doing it sometimes twice a day 5 days a week, now down to 3-4 sessions a week, so hopefully more energy.

Thanks appreciate it, thankfully she’s been really good about it. Hopefully as I settle in to it a bit more I’ll be back to normal

Thanks, I’m always a gent

Thanks, not stressed. But new relationship so only been at it for a few weeks. Seems my recovery is like three days. I’ll be able smash daily but only finish every other one or so. Went away for a few days and had a few sessions over a few hours and was only able to finish the once. After a...

It’s tight already, no kids, and she’s very petite. Might try some exercises myself though

Thanks, she’s definitely getting off even when I don’t finish. I’ll just try to relax and not worry about it.

Update - smashed a few more times, managed to finish about 50% of the time. Hoping things will improve as I’ve stopped fapping.

Thanks both, will explore more and try out.

Thought this might also be the case with age, hope it’s just a passing thing.

To add I’m 48, not had this problem before, probably the opposite, been over quicker than I’d like. I’m in great shape been hitting the gym 3-4 times per week for 20 years, plus jiu jitsu 3-4 times per week.