Recent content by TheNimbus

I know a lot of game theory, but after a long relationship I've been away from practicing game and cold approaches. Now the relationship has ended and it's time to get going again and my game needs to get back in shape. :) Looking for daygame wings in Linköping. PM me

Which Eastern European countries/cities have the best potential for finding a good long time partner/girlfriend? I'm a Swede, if it matters. I´m planning to go on a month long trip in May. Help me decide which country/countries to go to.

Hey fellows! My recent wing just moved to another country. Anyone in Linköping interested? Beginner (like me) or advanced doesn't matter. Drop me a PM!

To give you more context she also added: "Maybe another time." I answered: "Yeah, you can give me a call then." (humorously teasing her by hinting on the fact that she has no way of reaching me) I sensed that with just a little more banter I could have won her over, but I could definitely use a...

I like this! I'm looking for some canned one-liners like this, in case similar situations comes up again. In this particular case she's working the registry at a supermarket, so I felt my time to win her over was a bit limited before another customer would show up behind me. I sensed that she...

Guy: "I'd like to have a coffee with you some day." Girl responds kindly: "Thanks. But I think you may be a bit too old for me." What are some good responses/routines when a girl says that she thinks you may be a bit too old for her?

Update: I have been lucky enough to find two dedicated wings in my town, and this has been a game changer. We've been out day-gaming a few times and approaching doesn't feel nearly as hard with wings at your back. I wish I could be as comfortable doing it by myself, but day-gaming alone makes...

Yes, leaving the house to just practice approaching feels hard, at least without wings, so incorporating it in everyday errands would be ideal. I just need to get myself to act when the opportunities present themselves, and "warming up" or "reconditioning" myself by approaching less daunting...

Good advice. Lately I've been trying to pay attention to how I feel inside and what's stopping me from approaching. I've noticed I feel fairly calm inside, but it's like I'm not "allowing" myself to approach. So yeah, I need to ingrain it into myself that approaching is not a huge deal.

Yes, I have to ingrain this in my core somehow. Well, I often become aware of my thoughts and feelings, but they generally still don't lose their power over me. :-/

Awesome, thank you! I will read it right away. Yes, unfortunately Sweden's population is rapidly being replaced by females wearing burkas, but for now there are still plenty of hot girls here.

Ah, good ol' Pook! I read "The Book of Pook" back in the days. Thank you for the refresher! His words still ring true.

Thank you. Yes, but it feels like its an almost physical force stopping me from taking the "dive", so to speak. That along with my pride. Or perhaps they're even the same thing. I think I could handle myself fairly well if I could somehow just get myself to actually approach.

You know what? I actually don't have much inner monologue. I have a very high self esteem in general, but that is kind of what is tripping me up - I think it is mostly my pride getting in the way of letting myself be rejected again and again. I have listened a bit to Alan Watts before, but I...

Oh, I should probably have mentioned that I'm mostly interested in daygame. And that I don't drink ;-)