Recent content by teebear

That's the attitude that you've got to take. And you've seen the evidence already; you made a change and saw a benefit. Those benefits continually add up until YOU'RE the guy that somebody else is looking at, wishing they could be in your shoes. You'll be happier in the long run if you stop...

My advice about clothes shopping probably sounds shallow and trite. At first glance I thought that this was a "how do I get started?" thread. I do see value in a new wardrobe, however. You know that feeling you get when you wear your "lucky shirt"? Imagine feeling that way every single time you...

Go clothes shopping. Take style tips from male celebrities you admire and are roughly the same age/demographic as you and go from there. When you look good, you feel more confident and people treat you better. Trust me. It works.

A very timely thread indeed. Just what I needed. I split from my near-Unicorn a few months ago and have been second guessing my decision ever since. She was smart, beautiful, wealthy and she treated me like gold. The problem: she liked her alcohol a little too much. We've spent a couple of...

This woman sounds intelligent and like she has good self esteem. I wouldn't try to game her much, if at all. That said, a little "Beta game" might save the day. Your player cred is well established; now might be the time to dial it down a notch and propose a dinner date or something to reset...

Not a lost cause at all but... You were mistaken to assume that you had plans. The "that sounds good" comment, while encouraging, is not the same as "see you there". You were halfway there though; you had a time, but not a place. Finalizing plans three hours before the date is insufficient...

The right thing to do is to let her go. Wouldn't you want that if the roles were reversed?

Practice is good. :up: Get used to talking to pretty women. After a while it won't phase you at all.

If you're being approached at all then you are by definition, attractive. I experience this all the time. I'll go out to bars and women will approach and offer to go home with me but they're almost always 6's and 7's. My theory is that these women don't get approached very often except from the...

Policing your thoughts interrupts your flow and interferes with your game. That has been my experience, anyway. I'd try not to think about it too much and get your conversation skills to the point where she's doing most of the talking and you're reacting to what she's saying without revealing...

AWALT

I'm glad you had a good time. Sounds like your gamble paid off. You'd be cool with it naturally, if a woman broke a date by straight up telling you that a better looking, more interesting man asked her out? I think that tact goes very well with charisma but it's in short supply these days. I...

I see this advice all the time. With all due respect, I don't think it's that simple when it comes to women you truly like. Plates - yeah - during the early going, maybe. We're human beings. You meet a pretty girl, have sex with her and you develop feelings. It's only natural to want to keep...

Lace-ups are much better than slip-ons. I don't know if slip-ons even qualify as dress shoes. But yeah, nice shoes and button-up shirts are a must. Match your belt to your shoes (black & black, brown & brown). An adult male should NEVER be seen wearing running shoes except for when he's...

I was going to suggest that you be alert to the signs of a drinking problem but it's a moot point now. But absolutely, send a courtesy text with a plausible excuse for canceling. We are dealing with real people here. Treat others the way you wish to be treated. It will serve you well.