Recent content by summersky

Inspired by my latest thread I really would like to know your opinions on this subject. By a girl you are getting to know I mean someone you texted or talked on the phone but never met. By favors I mean not a very small thing but something that requires a bit of work. In my case it was...

Thank you for the replies! I know I need more options. And yes my mindset is not where it should be. Like I said I didn't told her that it was weird or I didn't like it, I was just talking around the subject.

I didn't tell her that I find it weird, I was just talking around it.

Met this girl through online dating. We had a few conversations on the phone: Deep, long conversations about all kind of things. We were planing to go on a date and made up a day and time. Few days before the date she texted me and asked for help, she wanted me to translate a few things for her...

Thank you for the replies! I know that this story is over and I should move on but my AFC-thoughts are still hunting me: What if she was really just too tired for sex? (She said she was super tired and that she even has a bit of headache). But why did she made out with me then? There was a lot...

Thank you for the replies! Any other opinions?

Hi everyone, Sorry for my english, I am from germany. I met this girl online and after a few texts and a phone call we decided to meet. First date: She cancelled but made a counteroffer for the following day. I said ok and picked her up at her place. We went to a restaurant to eat something...

Hi everyone, Met this girl online, she is 20, I am 32. Went out on a date, had a great conversation, lots of touching, kissing. She told me how cute I am and that she thinks im a great guy. After the day we texted every day, she told me how great the date was and I told her the same. I asked...

Thanks again. @flowtheory: I get what you are telling me.. I was talking to her and offered a day. She said she cant make it but offered another day. We didnt talk about what we will do but I had the feeling she doesnt want to come to my place. So I thought about texting her a few days before...

Thanks for your opinions. I have to add that I was not annoyed because she didnt want to have sex - I was annoyed because she was totally cold on the second date and even didnt let me kiss her. After i called her out she said she is playing being cold on purpose because she doesnt want to go...

Thank you for your opinions. So my main mistake was trying too hard and calling her out on being so passive? I was just annoyed because there was zero affection from her side. So u think I should have been more patient and wait for her to be more open to it? Even if that would be on date number...

Hi everyone, i met this girl (24 years old) during the day. First date was a week later. She came to my place (it was her idea), we cooked and had a lot of fun. I tried escalating many times and she let me kiss and touch her a bit but nothing came from her. I wanted to go further but she...

Hi everyone, met this girl online, everything seemed great. She seemed like a good, intelligent and nice girl. Few red flags appeared, for example that she has been abused in the past / has a big tattoo. We had good conversations and a good connection. Had Sex on the second date and at the end...

Hi everyone, i met a girl on a dating site few weeks ago. First date was great, so much chemistry, fun and a kiss at the end. The conversations were good, we have much in common and she seems like a decent, good woman. I always let her chase me, doing most of the texting and she was asking me...

Hi everyone, it sounds sad and the thought is depressing but after all my experiences and reading about how women are, i think I dont ever want a relationship again. I always believed in real love and I was sure I will find a woman I can have a great relationship with. This belief is almost...