Recent content by Shaka

Dear ZTime, I don't post much, but I followed you since you came here, in the "Saw it coming" thread. Btw, As Mauser said, everyone should check the whole thread. I hope I won't come off too conceited or too strong, but I hope I can give you some good insight. It might also be therapeutic for...

I'm wondering the same stuff so I'm interested as well.

Hey Cejay, Been following your progress I know you already know the answer to this tho... reread this. http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=155594 Even if you want her back, the answer is "ignore her"

Dear MOTU, With all due respect, and I hope you won't take it bad, but it seems to me that your guts are well aware of the Red Flags. And that you are seeking for some kind of justification to keep seeing her. Ask yourself this and be honest : are you asking people here for their approval...

She is baiting you with the kids. Don't fall for it

Hey Vega, long time no see I'm with Mauser. I bet it's a lie. Don't give in and do not answer ! Some women have a twisted way for getting attention. I'm not the type of guy that screams "BPD" for every minor things but be careful here. Don't be swallowed by the vortex. She seems a little...

if she doesn't behave properly, withdraw your attention. You can communicate like that, coverly. Start seeing other women

Follow the you just got dumped guide and listen to Noyou. Stay ghost. If you reinitiate, asking that question, you will be done. Understand this : even if you are willing to get back with her in the future, you have to be prepared TO LOSE HER. Don't cling on the idea of "I should answer so...

Ztime, you can't be more right. You know the old "bros before hoes" adage right ? Let me tell you this : Women will come and go. But good friends will stay forever. So yeah, cherish them from time to time. Don't become that guy that get isolated from his friends because of his GF. NEVER...

Look, you know the answer already So Im gonna give you some tough bro love you need to listen to. As Noyou said, he is just looking for your validation. And in the process of giving it to him, you will hurt yourself more, while you seek for your own validation and ego boost Stop being so...

I agree with Noyou. Even if he msg you telling he wants you back, don't give in yet. I think there are some rules that you need to follow when you want to give anotehr try with an ex when you been dumped : 1/ the ex has to be very determined 2/ the ex and you moved on 3/ both the ex and...

Your strategy is ok It's just that she was insecure and went for the beta bucks. Nothing you can do. Because if you turned beta, she would have lost interest anyway In the end, you dodged a bullet. But she will probably try to test the water sometime and try again, or cheat with you etc...

She is just baiting you... Don't answer. Seriously, stop thinking what she is thinking about you. It's a sign that you still care, and you want her back. Who care if she thinks you're rude ? What you are supposed to do ? be a so called mature man, when in fact, it's just for her...

Here are my thought based on what you said : Do you see how the old beta you panicked when a gorgeous women was talking to him ? like a 9 or something. You were scared right ? Probably lost frame, maybe became creepy or something. Maybe it's what's in her mind too ? If your value is that...

This got my attention. I get the feeling that you are putting pvssies on a piedestal. That your happiness is linked to the fact of getting a GF. If this wasn't the case, this thread wouldn't exist. Or at least, you would't have added that at the end. And maybe chicks are feeling it. Learn...