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    Is it possible a girl ignores you cause she still likes you?

    Yet I just met up with her and we talked and we fvked. But it’s not about that. I really like her, she likes me too. The theories here just don’t match up.
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    Is it possible a girl ignores you cause she still likes you?

    This forum has gotten in a bad place lately. I crashed yesterday and I just asked what was going on. She was indeed ignoring cause she likes me, but I just gave bad signals. Oh wait now the issue is that she is going trough a though time and I just happened to talk at the right time? Honestly...
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    Is it possible a girl ignores you cause she still likes you?

    Met a girl two years ago at work. We clicked but due covid and personal reasons nothing ever happened. About a year ago we started drifting apart which I caused, again due to personal reasons. Still see her at work from time to time, but comes today. I had a two month holiday and saw her again...
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    In deep trouble emotionally

    Very long story, will try to keep it as short as possible - for whole my life I struggled with low self-esteem - many girls found me attractive and fun, but I never was able to take it further because of the above - when I find someone attractive, I tend to close up, not being able to talk to...
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    Oneitis and lockdown is destroying my life

    Last year I met a girl, we hit it off, but never got to anything due to covid lockdown. I kinda ruined it after a few months because I got too needy (I always have this with people I'm interested in). I've always been very weak socially, especially with girls I'm truly interested in, so I felt...
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    Crippling low self-esteem

    Thanks for all the advice. Try to replace the negative thoughts with positive ones these days, but some just keep on coming back and can still make me feel depressed and feeling like "I'll never become who I really want to be, so why just try". Can you guys vouch for the fact that "as you...
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    Crippling low self-esteem

    I do not think I'm ugly, not a "wow he's hot". But I had girls show serious interest (which I unfortunately only realised too late or I was just to insecure and was too quiet). All in all, I think (or I hope) I'm a bit above average. About the creepiness. The last months I've been, and still...
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    Crippling low self-esteem

    Try to make a long story short Never been good in social settings, tend to close up with girls I really like, tend to feel like I'm the most creepy and ugly guy out there. Met a girl at work last year, was only able to have good conversations with her via text, and it went amazingly well...
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    My beta story

    Gonna be a long post (bottom is a tl:dr), but after this experience, I hope I can finally get the energy to make a change. 32 years old, always had trouble with my self-esteem and social skills. Age 17 started a 3 year long relationship, I ended it and immediately rolled into a ‘secret’...
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    Nc on a hb9

    Not gonna go explain the total story. But would it would be a good idea to just go nc on her for a day or two? I’m quite afraid she would just go to someone else and I’m done. Or would it spark some interest? Side question: if I would be her chad, what would my texting frequency be? Would I...
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    Explain me her behaviour

    I did before but like I said somewhere else, it would take paragraphs to explain what's going on between us. I have to admit it's not the full story I am posting here, because even though there is anonymity on this forum, I'm still afraid that she might read this one way or the other. But I did...
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    Explain me her behaviour

    I get that, but I don’t get it when you know she’s for real or when she’s playing you. You guys have 1000 times the experience, I know that. But it seems everything a girl does is a test/getting attention. Where do you draw the line? Don’t get me wrong, I know I have a long way to go. I know...
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    Explain me her behaviour

    But she isn’t, on Monday she sure acted weird, but the next days when we saw each other from a far she always gave a huge smile or a huge wave. But my mind is screwed over. This night I was out with a friend, she texted me. I replied here and there when I could. And with could I mean when my...
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    Explain me her behaviour

    I can't stay away because we work together... But yeah I can just stop texting. Look, I'm not over her, far from it. I'm still too much of a nice guy and thinking stuff like 'if I don't text now she would just go to someone else'. But to be fair, isn't it sometimes to easy to think of stuff...
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    Explain me her behaviour

    Ok I don't get this anymore I've been basically ignoring her because I need to get over this oneitis I got for her. I used to go over for a quick chat or text her in the evening just asking her about her day or have a conversation. I didn't do this the past two days. She did text every evening...
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