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Agree with everyone here. My first thought was that it doesn't matter what you say because you've already got her if you want her. As a general rule, though, try to keep it short.

Here's a better idea. If her cheating on her bf with you would be socially crippling, so would her breaking up with her bf and then getting together with you the next day. Other people aren't blind or stupid and would know what's up. There is no difference in other people's minds between that...

Don't bother calling her out. You didn't invest much in this (a few texts and a short call), so it's not like she really put you out. Yes, she's disrespectful as hell, but you're not going to fix that.

As to the main question, I wouldn't commit to the type of girl who can't or won't stop flirting, so I guess the answer is no. Early with a girl, I pretty much ignore it though. I do make it clear that she needs to prove that she's worthy and ready to be exclusive, and somewhere along the line...

So he took your girl, impregnated her, and then sent her back to you? For this you call him a poor AFC? Sounds to me like he only wanted sex from her and when she tried to start a relationship he ended it quickly. I'm not on here to fight, but I can't figure out why you think accepting her...

I have to agree with Die Hard. Somehow you've convinced yourself that all you want from this girl is a picture on facebook. I'm not sure how her having tonsillitis changes things. It's not like you want this relationship to get deeper or anything, right? Also, hiding facts from the people...

If you just want to pick up girls online, i'd suggest okcupid over facebook.

I'm curious about what you want from this woman. If you just want sex, I'm pretty sure there are easier ways to get it. If you want a relationship, I'm damn sure there are less damaged chicks you can have one with. Whether she has BPD or not, this emotional roller coaster is her territory not...

He's not wrong about how dangerous some of the expectations of men are, especially in the black community. I worked with a bunch of young black men (18-21) who had already fathered children and been to jail, and my feelings were that those events weren't entirely disconnected. It's beyond...

Anyone can cheat under the right circumstances. That's why it's so common for people to cheat when they're on vacation somewhere. Romantic atmosphere, "exotic" partner, low risk of being caught or a sticky situation afterwards... I agree with those who said that the people who are less likely...

Duke is right on. You shouldn't be drinking beer and dancing just so that you don't seem like a party pooper. If it's what you want to do, that's fine, but don't do it just to please her and seem like someone you're not. That is "needy" behavior. It shows you feel like you need to impress...

That's pretty funny. Your mom sounds pretty cool at least. I would never have even attempted to have a girl sleep over at my mom's house.

I'm sorry, but you didn't change anything at all. You might have made yourself feel better (i doubt it), but she is exactly the same now as she was before you sent the message. Except now she feels justified in never meeting up with you because you've shown yourself to be a "jerk". If you...

Iago, it seems like you're still in the "waiting" mode. If she actually goes out with this guy or not is irrelevant at this point. She just made a date with this guy she just met who wants to screw her, and has the nerve to get mad at you for not being happy with it. At this point she's...

Confusing is not a bad thing at all. A good way of rephrasing that is that you're a "Mystery" to her. Mystery is good. While she's trying to figure you out, she's constantly thinking about you, and it brings excitement to her life. You also keep her on her toes and ensure that she doesn't...