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    I'm new and this is my first post. I want to improve and I like this girl I know.

    Hey Dude... Here's my take: All good signs here. She gave you her phone number and you used it, she picked up on the first ring, and while she could not make it to your plans, she counter-offered with another date and time. I would have liked to pin down a time, but otherwise all good. I...
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    tips for getting bartenders chicks.....

    Here's an example which may work for you: I went to a bar in Denver with some friends for several weeks (Funky Buddha) and we always sat at a table. We always had some hot (but psychotic!) chicks with us, co-workers and what not. The waitress was a perfect 10. Stunning. My buddy tried to...
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    Wear a Suit

    I agree with dressing well. I don't have to, but I dress for work with dress pants, dress shirt, a tie and *most importantly* a tie chain. Just a little silver or gold chain that goes across the tie. I get stares on the Metro, and get quite a few women moving to get my attention. Easy...
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    If she fvcks up this weekend im leaving

    Telling her that you are worried she's going to cheat on you is the same as saying "I'm not worthy of being with you." It lacks any confidence, any man-like characteristics. You've been with her for a year, hopefully she thinks you ARE a man. You need to live up to that, make her know that...
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    field report: she brought her sister along

    I think you made some slip ups, and the date with her mom is just bad, but you are learning from your mistakes and that is what it is all about. Be a man. Hold yourself up to your date. Show up and be a gentleman to her sister and mother. Next date, however, you need to meet somewhere (no...
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    How do I handle this sexual situation....anyone ever have this happen?

    If you "practice" daily that can kill it for you. I know it does for me. Also, try a different brand of condom. I like Kimono. They have an ultra thin one that is awesome. You can feel everything. Also, make sure you are getting enough sleep. Being too tired can cause problems!
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    Is taking care of her DOG too NICE?

    Teach Rover some new tricks while you're at it!
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    If you have bad breath, like I did, guess what?

    Re: Re: If you have bad breath, like I did, guess what? Ah it's not like that. She's really a perfect woman in almost every respect. She's not the type to play mind games. Even if she did, it's no problem for me to take a little better care of myself. Get this - she smokes, and now...
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    If you have bad breath, like I did, guess what?

    Get THIS - I hate to admit it but ... yeah... my GF told me that for the past YEAR that she has known me I have almost always had bad breath. :( I brushed twice a day. Guess that was not enough. Now I brush 3 times a day, use Listerine 3 times a day, and floss at night. And it seems to...
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    do you have regreats?

    Took the words right out of my mouth!
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    Help!!

    Been there, done that. Turns out that one of my ex's had a tipped uterus. That, in turn, means that I would hit it on just about every stroke. She said it was like being punched in the stomach. Many years of crappy sex later we finally broke up. I am now dating a younger woman (22...
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    Doc, I love ya, but...

    Well yes and no, I do agree - it is outdated. But I also thought I could share some of my experiences, maybe to help someone else. That's all! :)
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    Doc, I love ya, but...

    Eric, While DL does not address those issues, here is my solution: I don't call 10 times. I don't even call TWICE! :) I call once. If she is not there, I leave this EXACT message: "Hi, this is James, call me back. 703 - 555 - 1212." <click> If she is interested, she'll call me back...
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    OK i have a real problem with this behavior from women

    Hell, I'd just stop calling her. And I would not ask her out. I'd wait for HER to make plans - like offer to make you dinner at your place. Something like that. See, for me the biggest problem with a woman like this is that she is (1) wasting your time (2) distracting you and (3)...
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    OK i have a real problem with this behavior from women

    I think the counter offer is a good thing. However, I would put my foot down and tell her that you will not tolerate being stood up. She's a big girl, she can get a calendar, and she can keep a date if she makes a date. If not, you should see if you can have a backup date to go out with. ;)
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