Recent content by Obliteraga

My mind isn't made up, or I wouldn't have posted this thread. I'm talking theory here. If I were to talk to her here's how it would go down and why. xxx yyy. Pros? Cons? That's all I'm looking for here. Pros and cons to talking to her, and what I should say for those who believe that breaking...

Thanks for the replies guys. A couple things: Yeah, at the time, she tried to convince me that he actually was the father. Then later on told me she was "90% sure" that he really wasn't. She hated him because she claimed he wasn't there for her and abandoned her while she was pregnant and...

Ok, I understand that the situation is horrible. I get it. I'm getting out asap. The only thing I'm considering doing is simply breaking up with her in person, and then going no contact from then on and I'm never planning on seeing or talking to her again. I simply want to amicably break things...

I hear ya man. I'm definitely looking to just defuse this thing. This is not about game, it's strictly about damage control and getting out of this thing unscathed. That's why I want to break up on as good of terms as possible and make it clear that I have no intention to ever see her again...

Ok, so some of you may remember I posted this thread a few days ago and got some great advice. I've quoted the original post because that thread got moved to general (not sure why, since I'm over 25) and I can't edit it otherwise I'd just link to it. Anyway, the reason for this thread's...

This whole thing makes me nervous for sure, otherwise I wouldn't have posted this. Like I said I believe it's a serious situation. It's been brought up once in this thread, but this girl seems to be a textbook bpd/cluster B. I never DREAMED I would get with a pregnant girl. Never ever. I am...

No brother, I am absolutely listening to everyone's advice in this thread. I'm just trying to weigh everything as much as possible to make the best decision I can. Don't confuse this with me not listening to advice. I am taking all of this to heart. I've been reading this forum for a while so...

Yes no doubt this was AFC. I've never had a girlfriend before and I was naive. I paid the price. I got unlucky and ran into this whackjob to boot. I want to send the guy a message, but I'm sure he'd forward it to her and she'd just tell him it was me or something. I'd have to withhold a lot...

I'm not sure why people keep thinking I'm trying to get back with this girl. In my eyes, she's done. there's no going back. It's over. How many times do I need to say this? I could never be with someone I don't trust. Trust is shot. To the curb she goes. My concern is how she's duping this...

He is being shipped home in 2 months. I can't guarantee anything, my now ex-gf doesn't know where i live but she may possibly remember the name of the street, I don't know. she knows what I drive. Also, it's worth noting that my now ex also doesn't know that I now know this information. I...

I do have oneitis for her, this is true. this was my first girlfriend ever and I lost my virginity to her. That said, I have no plans to reconcile with her. The only thing left is to sort out the injustice of this other guy getting screwed by marrying someone whose child he may not even be...

I hear you dude. And I knew about the single mother thing. I made a mistake. I admit this. I am not trying to salvage anything from this relationship. All i want is to stop this guy from marrying her so he doesn't have to experience the same pain I'm feeling. I'm looking out for the other guy...

Guys, I know I have inner game problems. I know I shouldn't have gotten with this girl. How was I Suppposed to know she was like this? there was zero indication. I was totally deceived. I'm done with her. I don't want her back. Why so insulting? I know I have inner game problems. This is my...

dude I understand completely. THere's no way I would be with this girl. But she is deceiving this guy. she's telling him all the same things she told me. he trusts her, he says he trusts with all his heart she's not cheating on her. He wants to marry her badly, he's swearing on his...

Edit: not sure why this was moved from the 25 and over forum...