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    The 20% OLD Rule

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    I need help asap

    An apology makes you a man. Say that you're sorry and will never do it again. Say it as sincerely as you can. Say it strongly like a President would. If she counters, be firm and say that you are working on those issues. Dont look needy. Don't talk too crazy about your relationship with her...
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    I need help asap

    You should never look through her ****. Is there reason not to trust her?
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    I need help asap

    Do you have a sexual relationship with her? Any feelings for her?
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    What should I do?

    I was cooped up in my house due to covid. My baseball team was knocked out of the playoffs so I went to the dating sites out of boredom. She hit on me says she thinks im cute but warns she is 2 hours away. I say if you were worth it, I'd drive 6 hours for you. She dug that It was bull****...
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    What should I do?

    Good idea. Thanks. I will.
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    What should I do?

    She definitely doesnt think I'm lonely. And if she does, I know she is lonely. But I appreciate criticism.
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    Urgently need input from our experienced DJs

    Be cool. Relax. Don't lose your head. Never act desperate Stay confident. Dude, you're tall and good looking. She notices when chicks check you out. Those clowns are just jealous. Nothing I hate more than the weasles that say bad **** to her about you. Just be cool like Brad Pitt in Once...
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    What should I do?

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    What should I do?

    Dude, I had sex with this woman. She is hung up on her old bf who she will never see again,. She thought of me as in love with her so she friendzoned me next day. She was just not ready for me. So I say something to her and you back off. Apply no pressure. I'm not texting her over and over...
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    What should I do?

    I don't know her well. He is talking about someone who is in love with some girl that he's known a long time. I take that a different way.
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    What should I do?

    https://www.sosuave.com/articles/at/persistence.htm Everyone needs to read this. This is why I accept the friend offer after sex. Being called a friend is not making me less a man. Accepting it and not acting like a desperate man or hurt man makes me a bigger man. Its like sales. You dont...
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    What should I do?

    I don't know. I said that in beginning. It's the challenge perhaps. Just felt something different. You know there was just a month of great convo that went with it before this. It was sexual and romantic.
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    What should I do?

    I disagree You can be a distant friend and get her still. Not a lost puppy. Not some fawning fool. Just play it cool. This is not a prepubescent crush carrying her books. I think I'm being a man here .Youre basically cutting her off by unfriending her. You will never get her that way. The...
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    What should I do?

    4. A Gf for a year then plus 3 from dating site since Nov. I hooked up with 2 of them Made out with the third but she seemed psycho so I never pursued further. . no other dates I have others I talk to as well not from dating sites and hope to meet up soon.
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