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Recent content by nmartinez12443

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    Back to dating after LTR. I need some advice.

    Agree except for the LTR relationship one. If your in a committed, exclusive bf/gf/wife relationship you shouldn't be stepping out and vise versa. If your rationale she's doing it anyways you need to screen better. If just "dating" yeah that's fair game.
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    What are the stigmas for single men over 35?

    I mean yeah certain "clubs" like dingy rachet clubs or some college oriented bars, you obviously need to read the room. However most males at clubs, especially with tables and buying bottles aren't in there low 20s.
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    Zero Tolerance On Flaking

    For me this is a little extreme. It's not like she ghosted or flaked at the last second. She gave you forewarning and asked to see you again by rescheduling. Seems being alpha for being alphas sake.
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    Girl never texts first always responds.

    Been 4 weeks. I'm 38 the girl is 24. She works at Hooters solid 8. We met at a bar had sex. Went out 3 other times sex and chemistry everytime. We have a date Thursday, but she NEVER texts first (sign of low interest) Though she keeps the conversation going and thats a sign of interest. I also...
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    Lessons from Older DJs here!

    https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/improve-your-looks-by-3-points-quickly-2-0-add-your-tips-thoughts.238022/ Do everything on this list to improve your outer appearance which will also in turn greatly improve your confidence/le-way with women. Inner Game: 1. Never get too emotional, you...
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    Kinda feel sorry for the modern womens

    Will never show compassion for women when it comes to dating. They literally just have to download an app or stand in a bar. Even if they are unkempt, ugly, fat, bitchy, they will have suitors lined up well into their 40s approaching them 24/7. Now, if they actually put in effort and not be...
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    Can a short guy get girls?

    1. Be in amazing shape, I would put on as much muscle as you can. Ronnie from jersey shore only 5'6 but he has a commanding presence. 2. Get a hair style like a fade on the side spike up top. I am not saying a Mohawk, but this will give you 1-2 inches. 3. Wear liftkits insoles or cowboy boots...
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    I want to smell good what are some good colognes

    You want safe but smell great? Ysl Lhomme and DG The One. These are both pretty cheap on resale sites and have a great smell, but weak performance. One million is also very good. Abercrombie fierce smells amazing, but for that price you might as well go with Chanel Blue.
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    I want to smell good what are some good colognes

    If you like cheapies check out the Armaf brand. Armaf Club De Nuit Intense Man- 95% clone of aventus. Armaf Milestone- clone of Milesome Imperial I also like Issey miyake- can be had for 25 bucks, imo better than aqua di gio. Strong performance super fresh. Versace Eau Fraiche- Woody...
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    Would you LTR a girl who doesnt excercise?

    So got this 25 year old plate who I am interested in. The only thing is I am in the gym 5-6 times per week and play soccer 3 times per week. I am in great shape, but this girls refuses to go the gym or even go for walks. Her diet isn't the best either. She's currently 5'6 140. So how much of a...
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    37 years old and skinny again

    Whats your height and weight in the mirrored picture.
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    Starting from scratch.

    Similar situation to you. Back in the game at 38. My advice: 1. Go no contact. 2. Improve all aspects of outer game. (Get into tip top shape lift weights, improve fashion, whiten/fix teeth, skin care to the max, new haircut, etc). 3. Improve interesante game. Join social groups using meetup...
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    37 years old and skinny again

    What is your height and weight currently. What is your "normal weight" before the stress. What is your goal weight. So it's pretty simple. Eat your body weight or slightly less in protein. Fill the rest with healthy carbs and fats. Go 500-750 calories over your tde and see if your weight goes...
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    Broke Up With My LTR on my Birthday at 38. Is anyone my age still gaming?

    Thanks man, tbh I know Austin backwards and forward and appreciate the tips you really know what your talking about.
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    Broke Up With My LTR on my Birthday at 38. Is anyone my age still gaming?

    Appreciate that and yeah I kinda want to hit the ground running, but I agree I need to focus on my passions soccer, travel, water sports, lifting, and basically walking. Plan to expand my skills language wise and dance skills especially salsa. Also I am a specialist at a school so I have 2...
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