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Recent content by MrNiceGuy

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    office gossip

    yeah, I think that's the most likely scenario.. Pretty much my plan too, since I don't think either of us is interested in a relationship or anything, then I'm not going to start trying to arrange a date... simply get some after work drinks going and try and lead one thing to another.. If...
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    Smoking, how DJ is that?

    if you wanna smoke, smoke, if not don't, but don't start because you think it'll help you get chicks.
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    office gossip

    Ok, quick situation report simply cos its p*ssed me off today. I work in a pretty small firm, theres about 40 staff total, and its finance so its pretty much at least 80% guys.. To top it off of the few of us that are under 30 all the others are in LTRs/married/have kids.. so essentially...
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    Forgetting the very idea of women until you get your sh1t together...please read

    I agree with most other people here.. you will not meet so many young SINGLE (that is the key there.. single women) again ever.. I went from uni not really worrying about women because I was an AFC didn't really have a clue, and thought "One day it'll happen" It didn't.. Now I've left I'm...
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    Being Well Off - How to use to your advantage?

    I'm in a similar boat.. but you've still gotta have a certain mentality in order to pull it off even to get the gold diggers.. I'm quite lucky in that I landed a fancy job a couple of years ago, I earn more than double the average salary for a guy my age (25), plus if the company has a...
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    FR: I let her body language beat me, how to turn things around?

    The rapport thing is true, I was expecting since we'd got on so well thru email that she'd not be so closed off when we met.. Last girl I was with was very open with me and would tell me how much she cared about me, enjoyed being with me and so on, while we were together. Need to remember...
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    FR: I let her body language beat me, how to turn things around?

    I think this is the most important line in my original post Coming to that conclusion so early was a mistake, and I shouldn't have done, she didn't seem like a shy or insecure girl at all, I think she was just waiting for me to prove myself.. her conversation was very open and she was asking...
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    FR: I let her body language beat me, how to turn things around?

    can't its shorter than the minimum search term so I can't search for it
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    FR: I let her body language beat me, how to turn things around?

    Went on a date with a chick from the internet yesterday, first date I've been on with someone from online actually, and was interesting, really hammered home how key body language and non-verbal signals really are. well, it started a couple of weeks ago when she saw my profile and sent me a...
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    Why don't I ever get IOIs?

    sounds like you are not feeling confident in yourself about the way you look. Is your posture ok? are you generally in a good mood, feeling happy.. if you're not in a good mood people notice and you don't look attractive.. do you notice the difference if you psyche yourself up in a...
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    frustration.. how can I force myself to stop wussing out??

    I think I definitely need to let guys i'm out with know when there's a chick im interested in but I'm choking.. I think part of the reason I don't have a problem with calling chicks is when I'm thinking about doing it I'm usually home on my own in my room, so there are no other people to...
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    frustration.. how can I force myself to stop wussing out??

    yeah I think thats the right tactic.. if there's someone with you to encourage you along it works better.. Its weird, for example one of my friends has no problems approaching girls but often wusses out of calling them or only texts them since he for some reason is nervous about phone...
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    how do I make approaching a woman like a job interview???

    I know, my point is those are situations that alot of people find stressful that I have no problems with.. I want to achieve that level of.. well, just not caring... to women. Exactly i just need to get at it and keep going, there have been nights out I remember when I've just been in the...
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    frustration.. how can I force myself to stop wussing out??

    aahhhrgghh... Even when I'm getting repeated eye contact and signs of interest I usually can't bring myself to actually walk over and say hello, I'm fine if I "accidentally" happen to end up at the bar next to the chick that's been paying me attention but going up to a girl on the dance floor...
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    How to approach the first email??

    ok.. no reply to my email.. initial reaction was well never mind at least I had a go.. she was obviously only so friendly since she was probably on coke.. Although yesterday my flatmate said something about how he vaguely remembered the girls saying they were off on holiday this week, so it...
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