Recent content by mr.confused

I really think you're on to something here. Do you have any advice on how you overcame it? I've experienced with finishing a little too early too, and I think the whole thing is tied in with anxiety when it comes to having sex with this woman. I've had performance anxiety a couple of times...

That's a good question. She does have good qualities. I'm not going to try and defend her character online, but for some reason this whole episode has cut me really deep. Right now I don't want to have sex. I'm honestly scared I'll be humiliated again - I think that alone is a good sign that...

I actually went to the doctor immediately after starting the thread and the doc told me all my vitals are normal. He could prescribe me meds if I wanted but he didn't think I needed it. He actually said if I couldn't discuss this with my girlfriend then maybe she's not right for me. I just...

Well she's not a bad woman. I do care deeply about her, but it feels like it's a one-way thing. I'm always expected to be there for her and to help her with her problems (which I do, willingly) but the moment it comes to something like this I feel like literally every shred of confidence has...

I think you may be on to something here. When it happened a day or two ago I told her it was because I was so depleted from training / low calories. She wanted sex again yesterday and I said I wanted to, but I was worried the same thing would happen and I didn't want to disappoint her. So we...

Thanks for the replies. I'm in good shape - always have been. I used to be very into the weight lifting side but over the years my muscle mass has gone down. I eat very clean. My woman does desire me, but she's quite.. how I say? Blunt? ie. if something like this happens (and it's happened a...

So this is a rather embarrassing topic, but I figured this was probably a good place to discuss. At the moment I'm 37 and over the last few years, specifically around ~35 I started noticing a change in my sex drive / performance. I can still perform but I've noticed it's not always as reliable...