Recent content by MOTU

^^^^^^^dude, this ^^^^^^^ Your relationship with your son is far more important than your relationship with her. You can't allow her to define that relationship. Go to court, get orders, be a good dad

"Haha, yeah, don't hear many girls saying 'he dumped me bc I was being a self absorbed b!tch'".

When I was doing OLD, I generally asked for a meet up pretty fast, sometimes without even asking for the number. It helped weed out the chick's who were just looking for orbiters or an ego boost. I think the know within a few messages whether they are going to boink you or not. Occasionally...

This is why I don't have any co-workers on my fb and my privacy is set to max. I get requests all the time and I politely reply that fb is for family, but I would be happy to connect on linked in. Also, this is why most here say "don't sh!t where you eat". Don't mix your social life and...

Get busy accomplishing goals that have nothing to do with women. Fitness goals, financial goals, person goals. Enroll in some classes. Train for something like a triathlon or mountain climb. Start a business. Do these things and you won't have to worry about trying to get women, they...

OP, what state are you in? Here in TX I think you would have a good shot. You need to begin documenting all of your interactions with her and all of the time your daughter spends with you. If the judge believes they are just formalizing what is already actually happening it will be much...

That's my guess. If she was hot for you she would fvck you in church. Well, unless she is 15 and a Virgin, as others have implied.

My guess is that it is a sh!t test to try and get a reaction out of you. I would ignore it, but pull back attention a little - but not too much, you don't want to come across as passive aggressive. If she pulls back too, she is probably interested in the other guy. So if you want to party...

Does she work? Dude I would think real hard before you knock her up. That isn't likely to get better, it's likely to get worse. You said you were looking for a girlfriend.... You aren't settling are you? What value does she bring to your life, other than the laundry? What kind of stuff...

Yea dude, I would just go radio silent and focus on myself and other chicks. If she reaches out, don't get chatty - ask her out again. If it's another no or flake, go hard NC.

^^^^exactly^^^^

Past self: stop trying to please women. Focus on self improvement. Future self: hope you are enjoying all that money I saved for you. Use it for adventures, not stuff.

I agree with the others above, and would like to add: if you just can't help yourself, for God's sake don't do it via email! Do you know how often that stuff gets forwarded with a "look how butthurt/juvenile /sad /mean he is?

Dude, this runs deeper than TV viewing. She has no motivation or ambition. She isn't accomplishing anything - well, at least not much. All that can lead to depression and all sorts of bad behaviours. She needs to be busier with her life, so there is no time for TV. Then she will be...

Dude, I disagree and this reinforces my thoughts in your other thread that you are trying too hard to please women. If you are interested in LTR's, which you seem to be, I suggest you read some of Athol Kays stuff. OP, dust muffin has it right. Early in the relationship you need less...