Recent content by meathead

I hate you because you speak the truth.

For real, but beyond the excuses, she wouldn't offer alternatives. That's what seals it for me. She would say, "I have birthday party/company dinner/bachelorette party/etc., so I can't hang tonight. Bummer." Mind you, these were all legitimate reasons, but what kills me is that she left it...

There are generally eight factors courts consider in dividing property during a divorce: B - background of the parties U - unilateral or bilateral source of the assets L - liability of the parties L - longevity of the marriage S - standard of living H - health of the parties I - income...

So true. So hard to accept initially, but so fvcking true.

Oh man, there's a lot more to that relationship than what I wrote. But more to the point of the original post, this girl is now realizing what she's got and I suspect she will start using it to her advantage. Not only that, she's starting to make good money, so she can afford to be selective...

I've dumped two, but only been dumped once. I may get dumped again this weekend, heh, but we'll see what happens. Of the two I dumped, the hotter one was an 8/9. The problem is that she had such self-esteem issues that she never acted like a hot girl. She never realized that she could have...

The unanimous opinion has it. No contact shall continue as long as it must. I will not be one of those guys who initiates a long thread looking for advice and then goes against the better wisdom and says, "well I called her anyway and blah blah blah... how do I get her back?" That is not...

That is funny when I look back on my thoughts at the time of posting. Clearly, I fell off the wagon and relapsed into full-on AFC mode. It really sucks to think about how high her interest level was just a few short weeks ago compared to what I'm getting now. Hopefully, I and everyone else...

I can't believe I didn't understand that at first, but it makes a ton of sense. It hurts to have to ignore her, particularly because it was my own failures that created this problem. But as to meeting new girls, I'm already on the job, and it helps.

"When you pick your date up ... it helps to have flowers in hand." The crown jewel of bad advice.

Interesting article, but it only discusses the symptoms of low interest that lead to cheating. That is, it does not address the underlying causes of low interest. Show me a cheating wife, and I'll show you her husband who got comfortable and became a patsy, failed to remain a challenge, became...

This is really nothing special, but it is working for me lately to control my oneitis outbreaks. It's really simple, but it works for me. This method may seem silly, but I am personally very prone to contracting oneitis. Here's what I do: I keep a list of the women that I'm either...

I ranted about texting a few weeks ago because if you text in an AFC way, you are giving the girl all the power. I have sent some AFC texts (oh have I ever), some Don Juan texts, and everything in between. Regardless, text messages aren't going anywhere, so you must learn how to use them...

That's exactly what I thought. I knew but was afraid to acknowledge that the correct action is to ignore her and go no contact, but had I not asked, I would've been too tempted to ask her out again. The nice guy in me would've made an appearance, I think. It's time to play no contact...

Long story short: the AFC in me showed up too much during a current 2 month relationship, and accordingly, it seems her interest is fading. She's been giving excuses without offering alternative suggestions. To be fair, she is busy and the excuses are legit, but on the other hand, the excuses...