Recent content by matt_uk

Day 19 Nearly caved today, but watched some RP vids are told myself I was a ***** and got over it. Feel much more clarity and sense of purpose now though which shows me that moving forward is the right thing to do.

A bit of couldn’t resist the urge, but a lot of ‘I’m done with it and want her to understand that’. She‘s one that will look for validation due to her insecurities (which she claimed were because of me), and I don’t want to be involved in that. This is the first break up I’ve had since finding...

Day 9 We texted a bit for logistics hence only on day 9. Finally had the balls to block her on everything yesterday. Feels like a big weight off my shoulders.

Cheers man. I’m not putting serious effort in with these women, but just having some fun. Yeah some days feel okay, but a lot of days feel absolutely awful!

Day 7 I feel worse not better. Why the f**k is that? God I hope this gets easier. I’m talking to a lot of other women but continuing to feel pissed off about how it’s ended and the fact it’s ended. Putting this here so I don’t find a way of messaging her!

Day 4 I’m back and only on day 4. Me and the ex LTR continued talking over Christmas but it became apparent that she didn’t appreciate me texting a girl friend who used to be a bit more than that (fvck buddy) a long time ago. (Context: we text a couple of times a year max, but the ex LTR hadn’t...

I think someone mentioned (and I agree with it) that the family weren’t the root cause of this. As I’ve alluded to I believe my lack of attainability was the main factor. I continued the strategy that got us together in the first place rather than diluting my alpha slightly to meet her hind...

Thanks man. I’m just going to leave her to it for a bit. Hopefully things settle down and I’ll see where my head is at in a few weeks! Your responses show that I’ve much to learn. I have definitely been too brutal in applying the RP imo.

We’re not in contact right now. I did the standard last minute ‘oh but I can be so much more attainable’ bull**** so I f*cked up. I should have shown this not just said it.

Thanks man. This girl was probably as close to ‘truly great’ as I’ve found. And yes she was absolute dynamite in bed, submissive as you like! However her insecurities were overwhelming, despite reassurances she just couldn’t settle the thought that I was going to have fun elsewhere. Just made...

I won’t deny that you’re spot on. I’m trying hard not to rationalise it. It’s frustrating because there’s this anger that my actions led to this. I hope these feelings are all normal and I’ll feel better once I start moving forward with new women

Thanks. I think I struggle with the concept of attainability vs a blue pill simping kinda mentality. This was the first LTR I applied any real kind of RP lense to so it’s good to see where I can improve

Hi gents, Im interested in your thoughts on this concept. I was in a 2 year LTR recently with a very traditional, conservative Hindu girl (another post on this entitled LTR ended...). She ended due to dread and pressure from family to conform. Do you think there’s such a thing as ‘too...

Agree. I think if it had continued for a LONG time on the trajectory it was on, I’d probably have wanted kids with her and maybe marriage. The long term vetting really made me value her an awful lot.

not saying you're acting like one, but she might be treating you like one. good to see you're not giving her the satisfaction.