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Sometimes I hear people tell me this directly, girls or guys, and I have enough experience detecting sarcasm to say fairly confidently it is not that. When I am places with my parents, people (usually those older than me) will say to them "he's got a good sense of humour" right in front of...

I wish this was one of those posts where I'd tell you how to develop it... But the truth is, I'm looking for one of those sorts of posts.. I just recognized a lack of self respect in my life.. I let things slide that shouldn't, I don't even man up to talk to women.. I notice people don't...

Guys I'm reaching a tipping point in my life.. I know I'm not there yet, but its becoming more and more unbearable not to have girls in my life.. I know I am motivated more by escaping pain than getting pleasure at this point, and I have tried, many a time, to logic or psyche my way into...

Guys its really eye opening for me to write this.. Somehow it came to me last night, that these were the beliefs I have about people. Let me first open up a little and briefly, saying I don't have much social activity in my life, and don't do much to change that. Looking at what I am...

I said it happens without me trying to do it. Automatically. I don't know why. Not all men, most men, can be anyone, old, young, black, white, handsome, ugly.

This is a question that's been on my mind for a while now. I am not attracted to men.. I am attracted to women. When I see women, I get feelings in my body, my thoughts stop, etc. But when I see men, I smile a little. I don't control either of these... The automatic smiling came fairly...

I thought this was just hilarious.. Regardless of the quality of your points (or advice around the forums), you all clearly have huge egos to even bother coming back and responding to each others' egotistical drivel.

Thank you all for your posts so far. I recognize two mistakes I've been making, one in regards to this post: I didn't give you enough information. I understand that these sorts of things are entirely situational.. So let me describe the situations, luckily, there were only 2 (2 of 2 hot girls...

Didn't work out too well for this guy: http://www.reuters.com/news/video?videoId=111635 Seriously though, what can you do? Accept it, or go get "break your leg and take out the bone" surgery" What do you want to hear?

So the few girls I've actually interacted with, and been attracted to, all seem to have one similar characteristic, and I want to understand what it means. When we part ways, they always look at me with sad puppydog eyes, what does this mean or suggest? edit: I know this sort of question may...

I don't know what kind of advice I want to hear for this, but I hope that the right ones come along for this. A problem I have been having for a very long time, is that I have not been able to get the motivation up to meet new people. It hasn't really been as big a problem until now. I am...

Hi everyone. Please I beg you, that if you have any interest in helping people out through their problems, take the time to read this post and comment on it. The reason being that I haven't been satisfied with my life for a long time now. I have tried everything from Outer to Inner Game to...

When I talk with women, or guys, I'm always the "information guy" spitting out facts, facts, facts, never really joking around or having fun. How do I get out of this and into a more useful role?

Why is it that when a sad or bad state of being comes over me, I don't want it to go away, I don't want to let it go?

Hey, thats a very apt metaphor.