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Recent content by LJBFB

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    Flaking since switching from first call to texting

    if it makes you feel any better. I had a hotel booked for date 3 and got flaked on and ate that bill...
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    Lay Into Me

    youre invested. Keep spinning others
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    How do I reverse/back out of this?

    Idk whether to laugh or be scared for the evolution/instability of OPs thought process. I can relate to most of what was said, but b!tch got you hooked. That kid is coming and shes gonna make it hate you.
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    Hard to read this one. Dating for about a month

    let the betch pay if she offers; then she is more invested in future interactions.
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    2 Unrelated Issues - responding to compliments and not taking disrespect

    Dont listen to what she says and dont expect her to understand what you say. Its all about action; words fill in the gaps between. The only thing most can do to influence a chick is not say anything stupid and adjust quantity of attention as appropriate.
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    Would you tell your girlfriend about anxiety you were dealing with?

    You're right on everything except anxiety being equal to insecurity. There is an underlying physiological process in many cases.
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    facebook is deal breaker for young women

    Elaborate please. I still havent figured this out besides shortening the interval. The old way was to set the date and make her ponder your absence. Clearly with so much competiton right now it doesn't work as well. Also, if she is on OLD it is because shes still thirsty ... more attention or an...
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    Help I’m confused

    Everything else you said was good but I wouldnt say the I thought you wanted friends thing. Too overt. Be aloof and selfish. Dont acknowledge her her needs until she does for you.
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    Hard to read this one. Dating for about a month

    Honestly you saying "hard to read" and especially "hard to read after a month" says everything this post didn't need to. That prompts the usual automatic DJBible referral, spin more plates advice or... if you really to challenge yourself and grow even faster you just ghost her entirely. That...
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    Hard to read this one. Dating for about a month

    Do NOT reach out. I almost never initiate after 1st date or 1st sex. I highly recommend u let them do this. Do not hint too much at future meetings. Do not offer this chick your weekends this early u lesss necessaru and be reluctant to her atte.pts at doing so....Definitly do not reach out now...
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    Djbible 2.0/ 2018

    Idk about that. I've collected approx 10 of 8+ this year, but it has been at the expense of hobbies and way more time than Id care to admit.
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    Djbible 2.0/ 2018

    Well I am very grateful for what this place has done for my life and the value it continues to add, but I do think we are chasing our own tails, and the successes of many members as a whole is lower lately. The bible is in serious need of revision. Idk how that happens, but I think maybe this...
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    What Actually Boosts your “High Score”

    No, you just don't get it. " Equal to is lesser than" in the minds of females. The more you give, the more they take and as Raiders said "you tread water." You then suddenly find yourself drained of your resources and she goes to suck the life and finances from the next. Meanwhile u are barely...
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    Freedom and Principles are more important than anything

    Glad you had this positive realization in the end but don't be a martyr. The first rule of Fight Club is...
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    Why do some women actually prefer to be treated like crap?

    I don't think you did much wrongs to be honest to give you some credit. This sounded unwinnable I just don't see the point you're trying to make and what you've done about the fact that you seem to realize. One thing you do need to accept though is that she didn't crawl back to anyone and she...
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