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Glad I could help. Btw, I wrote another post on shyness on my blog.

Quick update... You can read this article and others like it on my new blog: http://artfulseduction.com

What is an insecurity? Insecurity is the habit of doubting yourself and your abilities. You feel inadequate and inferior. You feel like everybody else knows more than you, has more friends than you, has better skills than you and in general is better than you. There are some key issues...

If you just want to date her, then ask her out and take your time building trust. Look beyond sex as a goal and try to integrate her into your life. If you just want to do her and then move on (i.e. consider her a conquest) then you can still do it but it's bad karma. You will mess her up even...

Just state what you want not what package you want it in :D

Why the f*** do you need a relationship right now? You're young. Relationships are nothing but emotional vortexes which when you're not handled to deal with can ruin you. Have fun with this girl, be sexual and explore things together. Your need to have the relationship is what's making you...

My guess is you still want her for a relationship and EVEN if you think you want to "recover" this to a FB relationship. My advice to you? First take some time off from contacting her. Give it 2-3 weeks. Date some other women in the meanwhile even if it doesn't lead anywhere. Then call her up...

dupe

If you have another year left in college and want to maximize everything here's what you do. Organize a party!! Talk to people in your classes, introduce yourself and tell them that you plan to organize a party in a few weeks. Ask them to invite their friends and get their number. Do this with...

Of course they are shy, especially with a high-value guy such as you. This forum keeps beating onto men that they need to raise their value when in reality they just need to act normal and girls will like them more. If you want these girls to talk to you, you need to tone it down. You can't tone...

They seem to be intimidated by you somehow. Are you too tall? Do you dress extravagantly? Are you really good looking? You could be increasing your value so much that these girls think you're unapproachable. Maybe you should tone it down, whatever you're doing, tone down your clothes, your...

You've gotten a lot of good advice already but I want to point out that the reason you feel hopeless is that you haven't quite figured out what you want both right now and for later on in life. WC2 is right. There also seem to be many things that you "should" do or that you're "supposed" to do...

Getting the first kiss out of the way is huge in setting the tone for the remaining dates. You don't even need to invite her over and cook dinner and make a move, in fact I'd advise against this till after the first kiss because it will put too much pressure on you to "make a move" Unless you...

Funny you should post that link up because it's exactly that article that turned me inside out. I'd sit there looking for signs, looking for signs, when in reality only one "sign" mattered. Compliance. It saved me

The typical approach here is to neutralize a girl's value and neg them. Only someone who's insecure and thinks of themselves as low value will try and neg the girl to drop her off the pedestal. Just look at leaders in general. They make things better for everyone. Even the whole idea of doing...