Recent content by latinnova

Those are interesting videos above as is the insight to therapy regarding cluster B. I should clarify that maybe I need to refine my conflict resolution skills so when my buttons are pressed to the max I don't lose my **** and get into a huge screaming match. So is there a type of person out...

Ya, no kidding. I plan on seeing a therapist shortly after to see whats up with me so I can stop drawing these women, or at least recognize them ( I definitely know all the red flags now). I have read that co-dependants usually draw these women, but damn, after reading all this psychology babble...

Ya, well, it was amazing how she was definitely pulling me back in, telling me to pick any hole, blah blah blah.... That is exactly right though, it was like a switch, she was kind of steady for a second asking me if I was kidding, and when I told her I could not leave work, she flipped her lid...

Ok, so let me update you guys on the latest. Sooo..... I was working and I got a text from her, all nice asking to come get her stuff from my place. That is fine, I asked my neighbor to let her in to get her stuff (he was supervising). Then I get another text saying how she is going to miss...

Thank you for all the replies guys, I really appreciate it. Stovepipe hit the nail on the head, that is exactly what my ex histrionic (my assumption) was like. She would purchase extraordinary gifts that no one will live up to , like at all. Even when she didn't have the money, she would go...

I have been doing a lot of research and it seems like she definitely fits the narcissist, Histrionic traits, especially the love bombing, daddy and family issues (she hates everyone in her family pretty much) hypersexual, etc... But I loved the love bombing and the sex, lol. Anyhow, one...

As long as I learn to identify and not lip a great white shark, then yes... until then I will just tie my fish flies in peace, lol.

Hah, she is my ex and she is kinda a psycho ***** too, I pick em really good. She cheated, that's why we divorced. Anyways, I am sure she is soaking it all in and they are agreeing that I am the worst piece of crap that has ever walked this earth. What ever, I hammered em both in the arse, so I...

What should I do, just ride out the storm and ignore everything that is going on? I mean I can't control them and if I react then they will be getting the response they want. Soooo... just pretend I am watching a crazy movie playing out in front of me and I guess just be entertained by it?

Whoa.... I just found out that my ex GF, the cluster B one, has contacted my ex wife because the ex GF said that she still loves my kids and wants to see them. Apparently the ex GF and ex Wife are now buddy buddy and are going to start visiting each other at the ex-wifes house. My ex Wife told...

Ya, I am thinking of seeing one after I get back from the Labor day weekend, or at least start looking into it. The main thing is I want is be able to temper my anger in an argument, because there is always a tipping point where it's like "OK wanna play this, here you go... your rage sets fire...

Quick question, can a person with a cluster B personality disorder only get involved with a co-dependent type of person, or can they actually just get with anyone? I have read that co-dependants usually form relationships with these types because co-dependants have no boundaries. However, I...

Ya, mine said the same thing about me, that she was walking on eggshells. Hmmmm... most people see me as one of the most laid back guys there is, until someone pushes my buttons endlessly, then ya I can get pissed, am I not allowed to or something? I'm going to hang that on my wall... that...

Interesting. I will have to read more about this. I remember there was a point at which I kind of didn't like her getting gifts anymore because I knew at a later time they would be used against me in some way. I admit I could be an arsehole in our relationship for sure, no doubt about it, but it...

Wow, I can relate to this very much. She would not do this often, it wasn't an every day thing, but it would happen. And sometimes it would even make sense in my mind... like I was speaking of earlier "Ok, well I am up, I was going the other way, but I guess I can get the water, I don't need to...