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Textbook black widow?

@EyeOnThePrize Your casino analogy is the coolest way of thinking I have read man! If only I had this knowledge earlier... Do you believe this can work even with broken women like this one?

shouldn't this be a part of the DJ Bible if it isn't already?

@D.Roger you got plenty of great advice. Given that I was like the second guy on the parallel ralationship, I ll just tell you to keep your eyes open and never, ever give her a second chance if something goes wrong. Never. Our desires are like demons living inside us, completely out of our...

You have a lot of chances to **** your shoulders up a bit. Do Pull Ups. There are ways.

Bro the woman you are describing is extremely similar with the one I was involved. As @oldmanofthesea said, if we can change, women can too, but I would be really careful in your shoes. She had a parallel relationship. For 2 ****in years. While living with her LTR. That means she is a liar...

A Pull Up bar and a wall is all you need. So Pull Ups and if you are strong enough, handstand push-ups or/and regular ones. Legs might fall a bit behind but that's no big deal. When you ll go back to the gym your upper body will be stronger and healthier, legs will catch up in no time.

Boxing would be your best bet, but you can only get good at it and be able to apply it in real life after a ton of full contact sparring. Which will take 2-5 years. And it will be really, really hard. If you are an adult who doesn't want to **** his head up from getting punched in order just...

It's like she run game on me :rofl: Thanks again guys. This makes sense in a way and helps me understand the situation more. If only I found out about The Rational Male and this site earlier...

I found out this in another thread and it is extremely helpful in understanding the whole situation, so I ll put the link here for everyone else struggling with a similar situation. https://sharischreiber.com/articles-and-forums/ Everything he is writing in the BPD section is spot on for me...

Guys, words can't describe how thankful I am for your help. @Polysix that's what I thought also, I have symptoms of PTSD and maybe something like Stockholm Syndrome. Also that was a cool, eye opening video. @billtx49 so more sex. I ll do my best to binge that. @LARaiders85 Could you please...

hey everyone Small update and a cry for help I think. No contact with her since last time I saw her. No midnight visits, nothing. Just silence. On those weeks a lot of good stuff happened. I got a contract for my sport that solves my financial worries for life and I am spinning one more good...

@billtx49 thanks a lot man, you put my mind in the right place. @Epic Days I think I get what you are saying... But how does this explain her actions? Either I don't get it or my English are not good enough to understand you.

deep down, good genes for their children and security I think. I don't get why. What purpose?

@Epic Days could you give your thoughts on this? I want nothing to do with her. No sex, nothing. I just want to understand everything better. From you point of view which are the different facets of this?