Recent content by Jean Valjean

2 reasons 1. she is an attractive, slim but curvy college professor with tenure and hi self esteem, and does not want to be one of my many 2. main reason - we are having sex and she is into safe sex and will not have sex with someone who has multiple partners - too risky hiv I have not...

Guys you know rule 1 have more then one 'girl' friend to go out with. How do you handle the exclusivity demands that crop up. Well I've acquired two and just had both for sex on the same day. one in the morning and one in at night. reason I'm writing is I like both alot. One is okay being...

Thanks Guys good advise. No need to buy her a gift anyway I always pay when we go out - she occasionallys buys me some treats so fair enough Going to a ig NYE party with all my plates at the same place. Wish me luck! Happy New Year brothers!

I meet all my girls dancing. It is obvious that she has low interest in you. Do not hit on her while she is teaching this is called sexual harrassment. You can get sued. She will not respect you for it, becuase you are using her livelihood to expect some sexual relationship. She told you she...

Brothers I am spinning am still friends with exwife and spinning 2 plates (gf) right now. One plate I met 5 weeks ago and have slept with twice. We have mainly gone dancing, dinner and alot of making out. She is a highly educated career woman very sweet and bought me a small gift (hi...

Hi again. I'm over my BPD. You need to do the same - get some NC going and talk your mind away from her - but most important find a high quality girl the comparison will make her pale. In time you would find like I did that she is a lost case - pity the guy with her and feel stupid that you...

sounds very immature to flash your conquests like that, also makes you look insecure and trying to prove something she may be a high quality girl and not into the immature stuff - got turned off just learn your lesson and move on

Take up a hobby and volunteer somewhere. I volunteer at dance socials and have met alot of people but it is still hard to get past just casual friendship. You have to spend time with them and bond.

Amen to that. 'Love the girl who holds the world in a paper cup, drink it up, Love her and she'll bring you luck. And if you find she helps your mind, buddy, take her home, Don't you live alone, try to earn what lovers own. '

My best rapport comes when I can joke and talk a little on the dance floor no heavy conversation though. These are social dances - swing, salsa etc.

Hey Weeze Hope the pain is gone. I don't worry anymore about my ex squeeze. The thing is I am going to be alot more careful about falling again for anyone. You have to filter and be sure its real before you give your heart away. I take on a zen detached state so I have no problem...

Thanks dude :cheer:

There is a need on this forum for some alternative views of the world ...here is a little different perspective hopefully it helps ... 'Most women want to know a man before becoming intimate with him. That often takes many more dates than three. If you find a woman you like and she wants to...

Thanks I will try to do you proud. See you're in sunny Australia mate. I'll try to get them in my condo for dinner and seduce them I guess. Thing is I just got over one beautiful woman that was a long painful struggle and heart ache for me. Now I seriously will consider getting back with my...

I hear you man and can sure feel the pain. I know what it feels like. Whne I was going through the pain it was no wonder to me why some just want to end it all after a bad breakup. I agree NC is generally the best policy just think that it needs to be tempered with judgment and your own...