Recent content by Jackman

Most of what's here was never intended for beginners to begin with. All of these acronyms and sh!t were devised by men who knew what they were doing so they could communicate and talk to other men who knew what they were doing.

Knowledge is not the same as understanding. Every child is told that fire burns, but it isn't until they get burned that first time that they understand it. Look at all of the guys pouring into this site asking what they should do. Most of them don't listen to the advice that is given. Like the...

I wouldn't quite put it THAT way, but I don't think it would be an issue if you were to say that you talked to a million people this weekend and you need a little reminder on what you two talked about. Then you can just go into the "Oh yeah!" thing. Besides, nothing says red flag more than...

I'm inclined to describe myself as the old school, natural type of guy when it comes to women, not because I believe it's any better but because I never really had a choice. You see, I come from the days when all men had to walk uphill in 4 feet of snow without shoes on just to hit on a girl. It...

If you want to try things differently other than just the knee-jerk NEXT reaction, then you should understand that the persistance is in you interest, not in constantly asking her to get together. Otherwise she'll just start avoiding your calls if it's the same sh1t every time. If you don't...

Give me your addy. I'm going to send you a plane ticket and fly you out so I can slap you in the fvcking head.

What part of this don't you understand? You're a free drink. A meal ticket. Go read the bible.

Fvck all that. Kiss her in front of him. End of story.

The whole bunch of ya are like a circle of old hens. Put down the balls of yarn and let it the fvck go. Damn.

I've lived in many different places, and I have to say that Boston is unique in this sense (I currently live here). In Boston, it is not bad boy vs. nice guy. It's more a class distinction game. The majority of women here, whether they're 20 or 40 years old, tend to flock towards men with...

It's possible that they're going a little overboard on the pranks because they aren't getting any social satisfaction out of you otherwise. In other words, if you're not friends with these guys outside of work, there's no reason for them to have a little more respect like they would with a...

There are subtle measures of chivalry that I've found to be extremely effective, but it's not the door holding or chair pushing type of thing most people associate with chivalry. It is in the simple act of "looking out" for a woman without over-stepping your boundaries. In reality, even a...

At 34, I still feel young and I'll probably feel the same way when I'm 44. What other people think doesn't concern me in the least. However, I can't sit here and say that age is never a factor that weighs heavily on my mind. For me, it has nothing to do with the entrapment of social convention...

In the world of boxing you have in-fighters, out-fighters and brawlers. Each have their particular boxing techniques, many mix them up and use more than one style, but all of these boxers regardless of how they fight need to know the same basic things, like how to protect themselves and how...

It's because your conversation is most likely viewed as "aimed to please" and not coming from the heart. Men will grow very annoyed when your conversation with them is somehow self-validating for you. If you're smart and jump in with something too intelligent, less intelligent men will see...