Recent content by IRRationalProgrammer

Alright, yeah that makes sense. I mean they seem pretty open minded and have a lot of the same agreements as this site but they still get stuck on girls, don’t understand the idea of having options, etc. but I’ll keep giving them advice, but they have disagreed with me on some things like you...

What was their reaction? I have two close buddies who are the usually AFC. They cling to oneitis but I try to give them advice based on this site. I don’t want them to be in shock and turn their world completely around as this did for me. It literally changed my whole view point from the...

Looking for wingman in Eariy 20s for Weekends. I go back and forth between New Orleans and Jackson, Mississippi

I have come a long way and have learned to move from girl to girl. but I still sometimes catch feelings, what are somethings you do to pullback from projecting those feelings?

Yup I agree with all this. Ill just focus on having fun this weekend and be cautious. I don’t think I’m gonna continue though and be as clear as possible with no bad blood.

Yeah I’m we’re going for some drinks this weekend so I’ll see how this goes.

Yeah that’s the thing. It can be tricky. I try to avoid combing family and relationships but I’ll we’ll see how it goes. I’m taking her out this weekend.

I’ve heard it said that it’s best to separate family and relationships until... you get engaged/married. But I was wondering if dating my soon to be sister in law’s maid of honor is too close. I ask because if she’s close to her, they will share everything and my brothers fiancé will share...

Yes always have more than one option. Keeps you from overthinking and keeps it easier to move on.

Okay so first off, computer science is a very hard field ( creds: recently graduated with Computer Science) There was a mathematics major double majoring in computer science and she said CS was much harder. Had another Pre-med student switch to CS and he said the material was harder. He ended up...

I made it to the other side. Graduated in December. It’s all worth it. Getting paid well and doing what I love with sweet hours.

I completely understand. Was there before. It literally takes time. You’ll feel like this for a bit or maybe a while but eventually you’ll find a new routine and it’ll feel normal again. It’s a real ****ty feeling for now but it’s normal.

It’s mentally heals. Letting it all out while doing cardio and finishing up with weights kept me sane after my LTR break up.

Yeah that’s a good one man

I’m trying to work on my flirting. Last night I approached a HB9 at a bar but I failed at maintaining and raising her interest level. I could tell she was bored. Not much chasing on her side. I did get her number though but she’s from out of state visiting so nothing probably coming out of...