Recent content by Illest

I hear your point, and no disrespect taken, but my question is do I even bother trying again if it's just going to be a waste of time. There are lots of other things I could do when traveling for work. My wife and I share finances so I think it'll be difficult for me to drop a significant sum...

I posted here once before years ago when I was thinking about leaving my wife - got a lot of good advice on here and I ultimately decided to stay put. We're still together and now have kids. Things are going well generally although the sex has gotten to be pretty rare once children entered the...

Definitely agree. I think part of the problem was that almost all of our interests/hobbies were unique to each of us, but we're already starting to look at different things we could do together. Certainly. I think one of the more insightful pieces of advice I received here was that it's on...

Alright, so after a pretty tumultuous weekend, the wife and I are back on good terms. Since there was nothing super incriminating, I just played innocent/dumb and maintained that I was merely being nice/friendly with no other intentions. She's now directing all her vitriol towards the work...

Thanks, Sam. Very helpful as always. God, I may be pretty fvcked. Wife logged into my Google and read some of my chats with the work chick. There's nothing super incriminating in there but she's super pissed that I talked to her so much and says we were "flirting." Says she's lost all trust...

Sam, I actually went back and read a couple of your threads from when you were going through your divorce. They were very enlightening although I do think my situation is a little different from yours. Sounds like you had no/few complaints about your ex-wife, but was just unhappy with being...

Thanks for the feedback everyone. Like others have said, some really great advice and invaluable perspective in here. Really appreciate it. As of now, I'm leaning against doing anything, partly because some of you have gotten to me with your very dire warnings and partially because I'm not...

I wouldn't say #2 is completely out of the question. Until recently, I was pretty much happy in my marriage, but that really has more to do with my compromising nature than anything. I honestly think that I am able to live and be happy with most women. But I don't want just a decent life, I...

Really appreciate all the feedback guys, and actually fairly surprised at the overwhelming consensus that I should stay put. First, to answer a few questions: - Yes, my wife was a virgin before I met her. - When I say I don't feel challenged, what I mean is that she doesn't stimulate me...

This is my first post on this forum. And it's because I really need advice. This is obviously as serious of a decision as it gets, and while I do not plan to rely on a bunch of strangers on the internet to make it for me, I would very much appreciate people's viewpoints. I've been married...