Recent content by Herb

Let's be real the vast majority of men out there are not players or slayers or red pillers, and most are not even aware of this kind of material on sites like this, and even if they are they often blatantly reject it. I see a lot of average or even relatively feminine men who still manage to...

I was basically joking/trolling with the OP haha. Just wanted to see what people would say here or how they'd react. That article was probably written for like teenagers or something. Yeah I feel like once a girl gets into the "I need space" thing or stops communicating as much with you, it's...

It's what happens to be these days generally if I try going the online route. The last five girls I've been with had nothing to do with Tinder or anything online, but I met them naturally in person, either at bars/parties or through friends or some mutual activity. The first three years of...

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But... but... she makes me home made food and breakfasts! :cry: I've... already lost? You guys are saying there's no chance to move forward now? Damn. What if she has her own reasons for what she's doing that we can't really figure out? Maybe she's doing this cause she's confused and unsure...

Sigh I hate to say it but this may be more true that I originally thought. Still, it's not the whole truth by any stretch, and is a generalization. It's more complex and nuanced than that. I will say that when I went out with my overweight and unattractive friend with the intention of winging...

Again, it is a strange and unusual relationship in many ways, involving contradictions, and I can't fully figure her out. I mean in addition to all the other stuff she does for me, the girl was ready to give me her really nice/expensive Fender guitar and amp after the third time we hung out. I...

Hmmmmm you guys make some valid points. But I think, knowing her, that she may be just as confused as I am and not really have any plan about this whole thing. I don't think she's just totally intentionally stringing me along while she does something else on the side or that I'm the side, but...

So I've been dating a girl for a little while now, like almost three months. Actually I initially saw her a few weeks, followed by a weird sort of hiatus for a few weeks cause she "needed space", and then she randomly reinitiated again out of nowhere, and we've been seeing each other since...

****in bull****... I can't believe this girl. She's been really distant and aloof lately and I can tell has very low desire to interact with me for some reason. A week after helping with the move in I ask her how she's doing in her new place and a joke around a bit. She gives me some token few...

I ended up just going. I took a bunch of Emergen C and Dayquil that day and felt at least decent for the duration of the night, although I started getting physically tired over the course of our rather long date in the 92 degree 90% humidity heat outside walking around. But the date went...

What do you guys think about going on a date with a girl when you're kind of sick with a cold but not noticeably? Like you feel like you're about to be coming on with one and it will probably come out full force the next day, or say you're at the tail end of it but still getting over it and in...

Yeah. I probably did screw up earlier but again it was almost outside of my control given the situations. I don't think my chances with her are completely over, but we'll see. It is true that she was tired from moving stuff around in the heat all day; it's just that she seemed way more excited...

I've had a friend who I've had an odd, interesting relationship with over the last 6 months or so. When I first met her I wasn't really interested in her as a mate much at all, and I was kinda seeing her friend casually at the time, until it didn't work out with her anymore, and then it got...

I get carried away when we do "click" on something I guess. Part of me says just to go with the flow and what feels natural, and sometimes talking excitedly about things feels that way. But I need to be more cognizant of the overall progress of the interaction, more self-aware and "meta", and be...