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    Wreckless's Approach Journal (From Dud to Stud)

    (Which is taken out of context, but the general formula applies directly to what I'm about to tell you.) For the love of Christ, stop casting judgment on each individual girl's "hottness"! This is going to staunch your progress more than you realize. When you start seeing girls as "ugly and...
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    Wreckless's Approach Journal (From Dud to Stud)

    (Which is taken out of context, but the general formula applies directly to what I'm about to tell you.) For the love of Christ, stop casting judgment on each individual girl's "hottness"! This is going to staunch your progress more than you realize. When you start seeing girls as "ugly and...
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    Wreckless's Approach Journal (From Dud to Stud)

    You're right: overstaying is needy and awkward—but keeping a conversation going that's mutually enthralling for both parties is not. If you get her number and mill around with your hands in your pockets, then, yeah, you're needy and awkward. And there's nothing wrong, JP, with "Hey, I need...
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    Wreckless's Approach Journal (From Dud to Stud)

    I actually have plenty of hair. If by "bald" you mean "bold," then by "bold" you mean "overbearing": I will bet you money that any girl that's on the hotter-end of whatever rating scale you do or do not use has been approached thousands of times in her lifetime. They have built autopilot...
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    Wreckless's Approach Journal (From Dud to Stud)

    Finally! You and I have had (seemingly) endless conversations on AIM, and the one thing I've consistently told you for the last few months is that not every situation is a number close situation. Please take this to heart, Wreckless and everyone else who reads this: NOT EVERY situation calls...
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    Daily Quotas .....

    That's exactly it! Especially for total beginners, the focus is way overboard on getting a number and not where on what it should be on, viz. developing a decent set of social skills and being a genuinely interesting person. I don't think it's likely that anyone can set his sights too high...
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    The Definition of "Closure"

    5hit! Where was this advice two months ago? Exactly.
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    How much do you like your supervisor?

    This makes me cool, right? My supervisor is okay. I bedded her for a few months, anyway.
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    Great Men

    TR also gets my vote for haggardest-ass-sumbytch to walk the planet in the last few hundred years, for sure. George Washington is a very, very close second. What a hardass. A real man for sure.
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    Best fight of all time!!

    the internet FTW http://www.bugmenot.com
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    Having trouble articulating myself

    Me, too I do the same kinds of things now and again—as, I'm sure, every honest person will admit. What helps me most is stretching my face beforehand if I know I'm about to talk. I'll make faces (the wilder the better), grimace, pucker, and get the face muscles moved around for a minute or...
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    Fast food wars

    Upon further reflection, I've realized that the taco wagons in my native hamlet probably tie with Blimpie in that they both—roughly equally—pwn all other forms of fast food. Taco del Mar gets honorable mention for being able to fill my stomach to the brim with a single, albeit necessarily...
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    Fast food wars

    w00t Blimpie pwns all of those restaurants. Twice.
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    Just something I've noticed

    Christ I hope not. :p
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    Just something I've noticed

    Well, duh All the daylight the rest of the world saves goes to Greenwich, doesn't it?
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