Recent content by Gentleman

Great breakdown of what just happened. I hate that I calmed her anxious state trying to be polite (or more accurately I was trying not to seem bothered /upset about the situation). But you are right who cares about her, next time I will ignore.

The other way around. She talks to you because her ex has not made the (correct) move on her. Remember they were in a relationship together. Her ex is the incumbent in this situation, you are the ´maybe´. I had a similar situation with a broad from work. I was her trainer. She gave me the...

I have wondered this as well. I plan to do some research on this. Hopefully this thread gets some more replies; this is a very interesting topic.

Update: The chick texted me out the blue the other day after weeks of no contact. Said she was just wondering where I've been. I took couple hours in responding because I was busy and because of the principle, but said travelling. She asked where. I dodged the question and told her dont worry...

Good that you revived! I'm thinking the laughter might be her being nervous/surprised/shocked. Maybe she doesn't have much experience with dirty talk in the bedroom.

I agree with the above quote. To the OP I would say you know you made a mistake when you were nonchalant about the orbiter because you were bothered enough to make a post on SS about it. I have been there. Where do you go from here? I would wait until I see him messaging her again an just say...

love this bit of due diligence.

I'm glad you brought this to the forum, the situation is tricky. She started flirting with you after her boyfriend cheated, this is most likely her being hurt and (unconsciously) looking for a rebound. From what you said, she is probably into you, but unfortunately, not into you as much as you...

Hey BackInTheGame, Just read your reply on my post (Why you should stay *No Contact*). I made a career switch last year after completing a bootcamp - no STEM degree- and I have had a software developer job for 1 year now. Any general advice for a newbie? Also, if you're taking on any mentees...

Applying this policy from today! Thanks @andreihaha

I understand what you mean. Seems like you're saying when she comes to my place I am in control of the environment. In some cases I also like going to a chick's house so I can see how she keeps it, and well in the first instance she invited me because she cooked. However your advice makes sense...

What is this female alpha phase? fairly new to red pill and have gaps in my understanding of certain terms.

I agree with some of what you said like me not reading the play fast enough and adjusting when she said "we need to talk". This I definitely need to improve on, just being able to pick up the subtle cues quickly and have a sound DJ plan of action. I don't believe just leaving and ghosting would...

I recognize SOLID GAME when I hear it. Much Respect. :up:

First time I hung out with this girl at her place. We were on her couch talking, and having a good time/connection. I was trying to be very suave, and only making jokes if they were the appropriate amount of funny and not goofy. I felt a vibe that the conversation was at it's peak, I wanted to...