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  1. Fruitbat

    Quick Question

    Good lord what an unholy bag of nerves I was back then. I can’t even read some of it. it all worked out well. If there’s anything I can add to others who’ve been through a divorce, a breakup, or just low on confidence - listen to the guys on here who want to help you. you might not like it...
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    Quick Question

    bro. Here I am 3 years on. Married to a woman 11 years younger. Amazingly, very happy and just had our first daughter. I was so low on confidence back then, I cringe reading the self limiting sh1t I was writing . you, and many others, were right. I can’t credit anyone but myself, because I...
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    Weight - to any guys who are a bit heavy

    my mum said I’m big boned and also I’m special, I’m the most handsome boy on the street and anyone who disagrees is a nasty mwan. I’m driving over to see her now to tell her what you said. I’m in tears here.
  4. Fruitbat

    Weight - to any guys who are a bit heavy

    hang on, my mum said I am big boned. are you calling her a liar?
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    Weight - to any guys who are a bit heavy

    I get that but for most men who are overweight, weight is a good thing to target and only when at reasonable BF does the focus need to be on BF if you’re obese, you shouldn’t be recomping and absolutely should see the scale as a good nay infallible proxy for body fat
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    Weight - to any guys who are a bit heavy

    funny, onsitus made me depressed, fat, unhappy and volatile. it was mainly for me this time. Not wanting to have sex for like 6 months without effort....with a hot wife 11 years younger than me, just didn’t feel right. I’m not trying to brag, I’m just saying that’s what brought it home for me...
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    Weight - to any guys who are a bit heavy

    ah, my arthritic condition doesn’t like impacts. To be fair I don’t feel like I couldn’t do it, but doctors advised me to avoid impact sports.
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    Weight - to any guys who are a bit heavy

    All I can add is I found (healthy) low carb/Keto the only way. Nuts, meats, dairy, vegetables. i can barbecue a rib eye and 2 sausages and eat with saukraut and pickles. Or jerk chicken with bacon sprouts. for me, it’s carbs which make me fat. oh, and I’m completely drunk and drug free...
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    Weight - to any guys who are a bit heavy

    higher than you think. Genetics
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    Weight - to any guys who are a bit heavy

    My dudes, I said I had gone but youI couldn’t keep away! I posted probably about a year ago about libido plummeting in late 30s. I was also very overweight. The doctor tested my T and it was in range. A lot here said weight is a big factor. Well, I lost near 30lb and boy, is it back! I...
  11. Fruitbat

    Fruitkitten

    Thanks to all above. I would reply to all but I’m currently sterilising bottles and the lack of sleep is getting to me, appreciate all who’ve given kind words and wishes. I will pop in. Probably in 20 years when I wonder if the chad following her is on here and i can track his ISP to deliver...
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    Fruitkitten

    thanks BE here’s hoping she’s half as kind as you’ve been
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    Fruitkitten

    I’m lucky in as much as my wife’s pretty chilled. Except for one week out of four! it has definitely made me happier. After a days work, I don’t enjoy anything like her sleeping on my chest; it’s the greatest feeling in the world. a bad side effect is it has made me a sap.
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    Fruitkitten

    it’s a she but I get your point. sound advice
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    Fruitkitten

    thanks man
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