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    Drug discussion general thread

    I’ve had fentanyl in coke, I know because you get very slight depressed breathing which is not characteristic of coke. Junk - ie painkilling drugs are now mostly fent as it’s much cheaper and condensed. an envelope of fent is the same as a big KG bag of heroin or a sled full of morphine. It’s...
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    Libido Report Pt II - Help!

    I posted a while ago about how on holiday my libido went full 16 year old and I was like a man possessed. I ate a great diet abroad and also gave up some addictions and thought I had it taped. while cleaning up diet has helped and I feel great, after 4 weeks back the lack of interest crept...
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    Drug discussion general thread

    ha, never had good enough coke my friend. I was lucky to know someone growing up who was a couple of rungs above the level where it’s dangerous, suffice to say I could access stuff directly off the boat at 90-95% purity. 0.4G was a whole night of flying. I had to actually cut it down with...
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    Drug discussion general thread

    well, I had a full on depressive hospitalisation episode from a mdma comedown. Actually hurt myself. I was 21, did like 2.5G (madness I know) and then my GF chucked me, my job were going to fire me and I flipped out. MDMA has a very dark side, I stopped doing it as the comedowns were brutal...
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    Drug discussion general thread

    I spent most of my years before 35 doing vast quantities of weed, coke, MDMA and it really took a terrible toll on my mental health. The only thing I really seek out these days are psychadelics, particularly mushrooms which I enjoy and do about once or twice a year. Recentlt wife was away so...
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    Emergency Fund Destroyed. Back to the Side Hustles?

    On the debt issue, other than mortgage my largest debt is my car loan but that’s on 2% interest fixed so I don’t pay it off. I can make more than that in the markets so I’m better off investing it or even getting interest at the bank. the debts I am clearing are the ones which get called in...
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    Getting girls can turn you into a loser

    well, I fit the box for trauma, def in this camp but I’ve actually done well out of the corporate ladder. My life was so dysfunctional until my 30s I never had that settling down experience. I had some unstable women and a drug problem, and brushes with the law/trail of destruction/periods of...
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    Kink-Friendly Discussion thread

    Im not sure what qualifies a kink. Not really into bondage, but I do think it’s hot a girl blowing yoh with her hands handcuffed behind her back, other than that I’m meh on it. Oh, I like spanking a girls ass a little. My major thing is clothing. I like a girl dressed up nice in the bedroom...
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    Another report - Diet

    I go 1g per pound LBM not bodyweight, I am carrying maybe 25 extra pounds I don’t need. I don’t think this is a hard and fast rule if you’re quite overweight
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    Another report - Diet

    what about blended fruit smoothies? you keep all the fibre. I can’t see the issue is the blender is just doing what your teeth do. I also don’t blend until puréed, I don’t overdo it. My daughter’s birthday party I ate some party food and I managed about 1/3 of what I used to. Your body gets...
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    Libido report

    Just FYI I just paid for the full screen. I tested T alone and it was fine. Now I’m going for T, oestrogen, SBHG and prolactin. I suspect as I’m chubby we will see more info, and I expect the answer will just be lean up and lift weight. If T is still high (690 ish) then any advice on how to...
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    'Dating apps have become the kiss of death for male reproductive success' says a new book

    growing up my friend was 5’9 and I am 6’3 he has great facial genetics, very attractive whereas I’m pretty average. He was the attraction, not me. Atractiveness is more important than height. height is only an issue if you’re average or really short - like 5’6 and below.
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    Libido report

    Yo. I’m not taking TRT and not really taking it as advice, some of the info I’m getting is solid, like checking free T etc but I’ve already made it abundantly clear I won’t be even considering TRT as a treatment. I did say above I got tested and it was lower and it’s naturally raised so I’m...
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    Libido report

    Fair point. I was at 690 so I’m happy enough. Although my body stores all its fat round my gut and libido could still be better, but mine is a-ok when work stress isn’t present so it’s psychological. still haven’t had the full T screen so no idea of my oestrogen but I bet it’s high, so...
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    8 MAJOR Green Flags in Guys

    5 is true, and so is 3. I misunderstood manliness to be winning arguments whereas the truth is you avoid arguments - except when boundaries are crossed in which case you enforce them rigorously. 5 is so true. Since I pulled my finger out and started living better, my wife has suddenly started...
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