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    IS anyone else finding their having to correct womens behaviour often?

    Speak for yourself. I've cut off friendships and family members before. I have disowned my own sister. And yes, a single isolated incident like that is silly. But you have to ask yourself, if a girl displayed two dozen strange behaviors, however small, can you really just chalk them all up to...
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    When on a Date… Sit Beside Her or Sit Across from Her?

    Not same side. If you're at a table circular table, sit perpendicular to her. Never sit in a booth with her until you've already banged.
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    IS anyone else finding their having to correct womens behaviour often?

    Ask yourself this: How often do you question the actions of your close friends & family? I'll tell you: very rarely. If your gut is telling you something is wrong in their behavior, it's valid, even if it's a lot of "small things". Yes, you can take it too far, but that's because they gaslight you.
  4. FlexpertHamilton

    She WILL cheat on you...but its okay

    You cannot say all women cheat... You could say all women have the capacity to cheat, but so what. I think the idea that you're just supposed to accept it and cheat as well is absurd. I'd rather just be single or stick with FWB type relationships, until I find someone who doesn't give me reason...
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    IS anyone else finding their having to correct womens behaviour often?

    I think it's because we know how women work more than they do, on an unconscious level we can understand most of their behaviors even if we don't quite know their thoughts and intentions. As such you would have to pretend nothing is amiss and put your head in the sand. The idea of a honeymoon...
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    IS anyone else finding their having to correct womens behaviour often?

    The problem is you have to really drill them, get them to stay on point, and back them into a corner, and only then will they admit fault. Before that, they'll blame you, gaslight you, or just have poor excuses. And once you do it, it's not like they just change their ways. I think you need to...
  7. FlexpertHamilton

    Testosterone at 527

    Total testosterone levels do not mean much without context. Mine is currently over 1400 ng/dL but my Free T isn't too high, and my prolactin, E2, and SHBG are high so it kind of balances out. Free T is the critical factor, but is very difficult to measure accurately since most labs don't do it...
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    Are us old guys just fooling ourselves?

    You might not look as traditionally "hot" as an older man compared to your youth. However, a man's appearance reveals what kind of person he is. A man who is full of regret, shame, and self-sorrow will reflect that in his appearance and entire being, and he will accordingly look unattractive...
  9. FlexpertHamilton

    Why Alpha, Beta, and Sigma males are nothing but brainwashing sales tactics

    Alphas are not violent psychopaths. They are strong, natural born leaders who are intelligent and have social influence. Wolf pack dynamics are literally the basis of the alpha/beta discussion and they're extremely misunderstood.
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    has anyone told a woman "they need a break from her"

    I think it depends on context, length of relationship, type of woman. I absolutely think something like dread game or a bit of distance now and then is necessary to maintain interest even if it's high. But that doesn't mean you just suggest taking a break for 3 weeks for no reason, especially...
  11. FlexpertHamilton

    Initiating dates vs complying to dates?

    Men lead, women follow. If you wait around hoping they will initiate, that's feminine behavior. That said, intitiating obviously means high IL but you cannot just assume all women will do it all the time. Some women just don't do it, but instead make themselves available and tell you when...
  12. FlexpertHamilton

    Initiating dates vs complying to dates?

    Do you judge a woman's IL based off her willingness to initiate dates/hangouts/etc on her own, or her compliance to hangout when you ask/tell her? Let's say you initiate the hangouts 9/10 times but 9/10 times she agrees and shows up. For clarity, I am not talking about initiating texts, let's...
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    has anyone told a woman "they need a break from her"

    Pulling back when a women already has high IL is pointless and will backfire. At some point they need actual comfort/security. You want women to always be a little insecure but not so massively insecure to the point that they question if you're even interested at all. Plus it's like you're...
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    When on a Date… Sit Beside Her or Sit Across from Her?

    Never sit across from her. It makes physical contact and intimacy almost impossible. Sit at bars next to her, or tables beside her. Protip: every date I've had sitting at a bar led to a first night lay.
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    Why not me

    It says nothing about yout value, only her interests. Women who go back to exes at the sake of new relationships will die alone.
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