Recent content by European-DJ

Many years ago when I stumbled upon this forum, it changed my dating life and how I interact with people in general drastically. Massive improvement that yielded tangible results. However, it never really transpired to the work-space, where my upbringing of “respecting your seniors” have stuck a...

Anyone been to Japan and can tell me what to be aware of; dos and don’t? Am in Tokyo for work and have just set up bumble. A good amount of matches already, but am wondering whether it’s worth going out on a few dates or if Japanese girls are too conservative for something casual?

I has a blast last summer when visiting Toronto. I have no idea why people think the dating scene there is bad - I found it to be amazing

You’ll never be worse off by investing in your fitness / career / social skills, regardless of whether it’ll increase your chances with women (which it will)

We obviously have very different perceptions of the dating market, but I don’t understand the need to ridicule. As I stated in my original post, I am happy and keen to have my stance / perception challenged, but this is my experience of being on the apps. Did all hot women that I took on dates...

Interesting observation I hadn’t thought about. I guess I mostly hang around people with similar career paths to mine, which includes a lot of socializing and traveling so you end up spending a lot of time with new people who share similar interests and with whom you more likely than not get...

it’s true that they don’t exist, but there are many quality women out there and there are many happy couples too out there. It’s not always as bitter as this forum portrays it

I enjoyed this at one point, but I am having trouble seeing the value in it now. Is it fun? Yes. But after sleeping with the fourth new girl in a week don’t you start feeling like you’re just repeating yourself over and over? Maybe I’ve just gotten older and my priorities might have changed...

I have always wanted a family… with the right person. Divorce simple isn’t an option in my view when you have kids, so finding the right partner is key. To your point of saying that this usually happens after having slept with a lot of women: yes, this is often the case, which makes me think...

I agree with your point in bold. I live in London, UK. I also agree with your point on dating approach of women. I’ve even dated some that made it clear to me on day one. However, it’s always the same. By the fifth / sixth date they want to commit and lock you in quickly. Even the very...

Is that time invested or is that time wasted? What do I gain from this? I’ve been doing this for almost a year now.. it’s literally rinse and repeat and I don’t feel like it adds to my development at all, but I could be wrong?

Isn’t this merely being a normal person who socializes and engages in a bit of innocent flirting? I don’t think this is necessary being in the game. If you become weak in a relationship you’re likely committing to the wrong type of woman who isn’t supporting your goals. I dated plenty of those...

Does this not depend on the quality of the woman? I might be wrong of course, but one of the girls that I am seeing loves hitting the gym with me and always encourages me to do better at work / my routine / and to prioritize my hobbies. At the same time she’s smoking hot. To me this seems like...

The issue is that every girl / women is practically begging for a relationship and your time. They’re interesting people and I enjoy seeing various women, but at the end of the day I feel like my time would have been better invested into myself as opposed to entertaining these different women...

Having gone back “into the game” after a breakup about a year ago, which saw me out of the game for quite some time, I have realized how pointless and distracting it is to “chase” tail. Why the quotation marks around ‘chase’ and not ‘tail’? Because there’s no chasing involved, it’s gotten so...