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    You say ‘no’ - I say ‘leave’

    To understand the female nature has already been cumbersome since everything seems to be getting complicated. However - do refer my post above to metalwater.It basically further comments on your post.
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    You say ‘no’ - I say ‘leave’

    I remember hearing a lecture of David Tian where he explained this in detail. There are 3 categories - Lover, Provider and Husband. The Husband category is the extreme difficult category to be in since it is the perfect combo of Lover and Provider. To reach category - the man needs to be...
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    You say ‘no’ - I say ‘leave’

    Exactly! Having a woman to be the life goals means that you are living in her reality. It should be a merger of the 2 realities where to consenting adults agree to experience the realities of both - not by one living in another’s reality and giving up everything dear to that person giving up.
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    You say ‘no’ - I say ‘leave’

    Correct! Most men are obsessed with being in a relationship for the sake of being in a relationship. Choosing a partner is already difficult when it comes to sharing life goals and objectives - further complicated by the fact that intelligence is already scarce in this world even though we are...
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    You say ‘no’ - I say ‘leave’

    Well summarised! I do wish most men would follow this advice and learn about the behaviours women exhibit to better understand who the world functions.
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    You say ‘no’ - I say ‘leave’

    Here is an interesting part - whenever I made a move, none of the three excuses you mentioned ever happened. As if she wanted me to advance and I did. Probably because of the attention she may have been getting from me?
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    You say ‘no’ - I say ‘leave’

    Thank you for the positive remark, Kotaix. Since you have been in my situation - I understand what it must have felt like. In order the get my life straight, I have refocused my energy towards my work and hustle that I have been working on. Life does not wait for anyone so need to keep moving.
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    You say ‘no’ - I say ‘leave’

    It is part of my reading list. Will read this once I get a more insight about my psyche and who am I willing to attract towards me.
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    You say ‘no’ - I say ‘leave’

    Well said, Barrister! Well said! This is what I was seeking for - a very thorough and mature reply. I have already cut ties with her and am unwilling to settle for this. Now I am working to maintain my will power to stay this way. Appreciate the comment!
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    You say ‘no’ - I say ‘leave’

    From my perspective - if I die tomorrow, that is almost 40% of life already wasted. And yes - I was hoping for a change in the relationship. Lesson learned.
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    You say ‘no’ - I say ‘leave’

    I will try summarising my knowledge and correct me wherever I am wrong: For the most part - red pill means accepting the bitter truth of how the world functions. Including the mating selection. From what I am aware, women choose to mate with the one who display traits of an alpha since they...
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    You say ‘no’ - I say ‘leave’

    Doing that! Just wanted to be sure that I am taking the right step. Old habits kicked in lol
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    You say ‘no’ - I say ‘leave’

    I haven’t read any romance novels in my life. But I will admit - my childhood was based on watching Disney movies and romantic comedies that pretty much ruined by own psyche.
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    You say ‘no’ - I say ‘leave’

    Maybe I should I have done so years ago. But hey - better late than never!
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    You say ‘no’ - I say ‘leave’

    If anything we do say is to be held against us - we are better off holding to what we believe. Whilst women seek mystery - one confirmation is what they seek that many of us lack - i.e. providing security. Would you not agree?
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