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Recent content by dude99

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    Half-azz apology from her, or am I being too stiff here?

    "my mental health is not okay," This right here is all you need to know. Next. She will use her mental health as an excuse for bad behaviour until you finally have enough and walk away. Unless you want to be mentally abused and ride the Rollercoaster of drama, next this one.
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    Do you ever turn a plate down for sex?

    It can actually work in your favor. It shows you aren't desperate or thirsty for sex, shows the world woman you aren't worrying abou5 when/if you will ever get it again, and it removes any idea in her head about using sex to manipulate you.
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    The woman should come out and tell us when they want sex

    You're trying to get women to use logic when they arent wired that way. This will not work. Your looking at it from the wrong direction. You need to Take the lead. Women know you will want sex. That is a given. You the lead. They follow. You pursue sex when YOU want sex. Not if/when/maybe...
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    Cold approach rejection!

    You asked her to play pool. She said she was good. You yourself wasn't even whaf she rejected because you didn't ask her out or ask her for her number. She rejected playing pool with you. They most likely were laughing at something else. If they were laughing at you over something so small...
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    Plate of 1 year acting distant/cold

    Let the birthday come and go and stay NC. She went cold. She was sending you a message. Let her know you received it loud and clear. Get busy do your thing. If she doesn't reach out after you let her birthday go by then her interest level was never that high to begin with.
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    Women and empathy

    Women can sympathize with men, but they can not truly empathize with them. They aren't wired that way. Hypergamy is the opposite of empathy Some may feel bad or sorry for you (sympathy) and what you could be going through but woman can never truly empathize with a man aka walk a mile in his...
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    LDR-LTR acting distance and I am freaking out... I need help!!!!!

    First things first you are waaaay too thirsty over this girl. You are spending waaay to much energy and emotion on a woman, Any woman, never mind one that is hundreds of miles away. Get a grip. Time for you to get busy and see other and new women. now! When they pull away and become distant...
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    My LTR broke up with me. I'm devastated. And confused out of my mind...

    She was looking for validation and you gave it to her. Your gut is speaking to you and you aren't listening. " She called I answered I knew I shouldn't. I spent time with her I know I am going to get flack here." This is your gut. She is trying to reel you in again because she needs to use you...
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    If you haven't excelled in life by age 32, it's pretty much over.

    A change of attitude is a good start. It is only over if you want it to be over.
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    My LTR broke up with me. I'm devastated. And confused out of my mind...

    Sounds like you are co-dependant, and she is taking advantage of yanking your feelings along all while (being honest about it,) telling you she IS going to cheat. That is all poly-amorous means is she wants a green light to cheat. You can't let go and move on when she keeps knocking on your...
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    Did i became beta or I ****ed up?!

    Yeah I meant it tongue and cheek to ask for the stuff back, but it was about proving a Point as to who used who.
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    Did i became beta or I ****ed up?!

    She branch swung to you, she branch swung to the next guy when you were busy. Bottom line you tried to Date a crap quality girl. Move on. You help her out by giving her a computer and other ways you didn't mention So I am going to assume you gave her some money here and there and then she has...
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    I Don't Fight Over Women

    This. The dude Is an orbiter. She wants to add you to her orbiter pile.
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    My LTR broke up with me. I'm devastated. And confused out of my mind...

    Sorry you're going through all of this but as soon as you mentioned she was pan sexual it wasn't going to work. "She told me she can only see me in her life as a friend with benefits" This is how she she's everyone. Not just you. You tried to have a relationship with a garbage quality girl...
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    57 yo former super model needs rescued.

    Rick Wright's wife was pissing and moaning to everyone when he passed away and left her out of his will too. She divorced him at the time Pink Floyd was recording the wall (actually when Pink Floyd was broke because of bad investments with their money and she got. Nothing,) but still expect to...
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