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    Mission 10%

    Quick and dirty calculation tells me that's about 19lbs of fat. For 3 months you would have to eat a 740 calorie per day deficit. You'll lose more muscle than I would want to and you'll be more hungry than I would want to be. If you plan for 5-6 months at a 400 calorie deficit you'll save...
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    NYE weekend with cool 50yo widow.

    Feel free to comment, tell me i'm stupid (duh), or your related experiences particularly with women this age or about this dynamic. Was looking for help at my store, which is tough these days as you may have heard. Got this girl's (lady's) number from a friend that used to work for me. She's...
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    Occupation that a female has that you have a thing for.

    Coney Island or Diner waitresses... or Strippers that just started today.
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    The invisible wall

    This "connection" or "vibe" bullsh*t is basically a combination of all this... Body language - relaxed / comfortable / open / lean back / move smoothly & intentionally / don't be jumpy or over-reactive Control your voice - don't speak too quickly / use pauses for effect / use your (slightly)...
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    I read on here that p0rn and mastvrbation can mess up one's vibe with women.

    Porn desensitizes you to real-world female beauty and jerking off all the time you're just not as horny. If you're not horny you won't project the same sexual energy. In my experience chicks often get turned on by you getting turned on by them. Can't tell you how many times a chick noticed I had...
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    New OLD site ad I saw. Must say at least it's an accurate ad LOL

    Oh sh*t! I was just about to say that's Kellyanne Conway in the middle :lol:
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    A Question for the Older Players Here

    Let me give you and the younger guys some perspective on what things were like pre social media. I graduated high school in the late late 90's All you had for internet was one desktop computer at home, probably in a common area, with AOL that you used to "look something up". There was nothing...
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    Pics - Post a pic of what you think is HB10

    This comment didn't age well :oops: https://celebmafia.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/01/angelina-jolie-shopping-in-la-01-05-2020-6.jpg
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    How to win an intellectual debate when on date?

    Literally zero men in history have ever won an argument with a woman. You ain’t gonna be the first bro.
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    How do you get enough Potassium?

    There is a product called “salt substitute” you’ll find at the grocery near the table salt. It is pure potassium. It comes in a shaker just like table salt.
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    How much money should a man in his 30s

    At 30-40, if you have 15-20% of every dollar you've made in the last 10 years then that is "a lot of money" in the bank, given your probable peer group. As far as income, right now, I think it takes about $90k in cheaper US metro's to $200k in expensive US metro's to pay bills, have a nice...
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    Tell us about one of your best, most fun, interesting, weird, wild or legendary dates...

    This thread turned out pretty tight. Here's one, somewhat abridged. 3rd date with a 29yo that had already told me "I'm just plain crazy" with a straight face. Got home from bar with her, lost my keys. Woke up roommate and GF to let us in. They went back to sleep. Later set off the smoke...
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    Tell us about one of your best, most fun, interesting, weird, wild or legendary dates...

    Tell us about one of your best, most fun, interesting, weird, wild or legendary dates... I'm not gonna ruin it by going first! Let's do it...
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    Contributing to someone "breaking with their beliefs"

    Why don’t you go to church with her one day. You might like it. There is some value there even if you don’t believe. You can also get a feel for what “kind” of Christian she is. Watch for feministy comments by the pastor and things like that.
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    You Guys Also Attracting Big Women?

    5’9” and 200lbs? You must be jacked. That’s very thick for your height, same as mine. There comes a point I think where a lot of women don’t like it that much. I’m sure you don’t want to lose a bunch of muscle so maybe get even leaner? Ever noticed huge bodybuilders don’t usually have hottie GF’s?
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